To apologize OR NOT apologize THAT IS THE QUESTION?! !

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zeldapsychology
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24 Apr 2010, 11:36 pm

Yes for the 1,000,000,000th time I'm curious IF I should apologize to the Psychology teacher I upset. *OMG here Zelda goes again etc.* but guys WHEN I go back (it's looking good BTW with Aid etc.) IT WILL be the same College the suspension and IN TURN where I upset the Psychology teacher. I've asked before here and considering she rejected my Facebook I assume she wants to have NOTHING TO DO WITH ME. :-( I had a therapist say "If I was her I'd never want to see you again." (THAT DIDN'T MAKE ME FEEL ANY BETTER!! !) I've read WP posts of What if she puts a restraining order against me. (IMO my fear is call campus security/cops just for stepping into her office) (Hey it could happen!) :-( and yet with all this doubt I remember her nicely. She was nice to me and guys if she wanted to press charges for the threat and toss me in jail SHE COULD HAVE BUT SHE DIDN'T!! ! Plus she seemed like she had a good heart and was caring/compassionate and I somehow have a feeling she'd at least hear me out and have an open mind. (She is a good listener and a wonderful Psychologist) Yet I have my doubts. :-) Decisions decisions!! ! :-(



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24 Apr 2010, 11:42 pm

Try a Hand Written letter explaining what you have learned from the ordeal. :?:



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24 Apr 2010, 11:53 pm

Good idea I might try that and slide the letter under her door. :-)



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25 Apr 2010, 12:00 am

zeldapsychology wrote:
Good idea I might try that and slide the letter under her door. :-)
:shameonyou:
Not Quite what I had in mind, perhaps an official / legitimate delivery service (with no signature required type of delivery)

No more excuses -
go get a pen(the kind used for hand writing)
and paper(the kind intended as stationary)
and start writing from your soft heart,
not your hard head.
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25 Apr 2010, 12:10 am

Oh interesting. How sweet write from my heart. but I have NO IDEA what I'd say to her I have so many things I could say I so wish it could be verbally and not from paper. :-( Thanks though for the idea. :-)



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25 Apr 2010, 12:11 am

If you DO decide to send a letter, it would also be a good idea to ask someone whose judgment you trust to read through it before you send it. The LAST thing you'd want to do is to unintentionally cause further distress by writing something inappropriate- it could also result in further consequences for you.

I hope all goes well with your return to college. :)



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25 Apr 2010, 12:22 am

zeldapsychology wrote:
Oh interesting. How sweet write from my heart. but I have NO IDEA what I'd say to her I have so many things I could say I so wish it could be verbally and not from paper. :-( Thanks though for the idea. :-)

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Do you NOT want to go back to college?
Do you want to go back with a clear conscience?
A letter will make it official, your true sincerity that is.
A hand written letter will show your heart is in the right place.
Once you start writing, you will be surprised what you have to say.
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25 Apr 2010, 12:26 am

Wow DaWalker! I never thought of it like that!! ! Honestly my sister suggested a letter but I've never done it. I think the main focus of thinking on this for 5 years IS that I want a clear conscience and to release some of the "emotional tension" as I'd call it. :-) A letter would be a nice way instead of talking with her FOREVER LOL! If she'd even let me talk. :-( I'll consider a letter. :-)



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25 Apr 2010, 12:30 am

You mean you will consider college? :P

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Intestinal fortitude.



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25 Apr 2010, 12:40 am

:-) thanks.



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25 Apr 2010, 12:49 am

I hope you get your degree and a comfortable couch.
I might need one in a couple years,
months,
weeks,
days,
minutes,
seconds
or maybe it's too late.

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25 Apr 2010, 12:53 am

DaWalker wrote:
I hope you get your degree and a comfortable couch.
I might need one in a couple years,
months,
weeks,
days,
minutes,
seconds
or maybe it's too late.

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LOL! What I'm looking at now is getting you SUPER DRUNK! and analyzing your brain and behavior. For actual psychological help (BEYOND Research as in Clinical and a diagnosis of Asperger's you'll have to find another Psychologist I deal in research. :-)



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25 Apr 2010, 1:06 am

You can probably take a slice or two out of mine and I wouldn't notice - doubt anyone else would either. :ninja:
As for the Super Drunk part....OK, but be sure to bring your high speed film, :shaking2:
DaBrain gets wired with a little Vodka here and there. :drunken:



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25 Apr 2010, 1:09 am

Well of course the patient would be on camera and I'd give you a vomit bucket and I'd mesausure how much you vomited (Although that has absolutely NOTHING to do with behavior ROFL!) IMO it seems like it'd be a fun study idea. :-)



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25 Apr 2010, 1:18 am

Jeez - the things a guy has to do for good science and all mankind for generation's to come.
(wait...you are buying right) :?:
OK, where do I sign up :lol: