nick007
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13 Oct 2010, 12:40 am
Tensu wrote:
I always considered masculinity to be more about honor, tenacity, and ambition than hair, booze, and sports, and in that sense I feel very masculine despite being a nerdy teetotaler... though in the hair department, if I had black stripes, you'd mistake me for a tiger 
I am very unmanly in those ways as well but I do try to be honorable but I have a different definition than lots of people. I believe in being respectful & treading others like I would want be be treated & I care about doing the rite things & not being hypocritical.
Talis wrote:
Not saying anything about you because I don't know you... but MOST humans today know nothing about honor... especially most men... too much pride and ego to do anything honorable >_<. I see honor simply as a trait of the honorable. Maybe the word valor would apply to men more so... but honor... not so much in the world I've seen.
I think they use the Klingon definition of honor. They get drunk & never back from a fight. It's better to die than to face the dishonor of being a coward. That is why they are heavily armed & kill their enemies
At least the Klingons consider lying to be dishonorable.
14 Oct 2010, 8:55 am
Talis wrote:
I'm a guy and I don't feel much like a man. I see most male behavior as disgusting or offensive. I find women to be much more pleasant company and I guess I feel like I can relate to them much better. I guess inside me I feel more feminine but I have no interest in men. I wouldn't have minded being born female, but I don't think I'd go through a sex change as I wouldn't feel right about it. I haven't had any life experience being a girl so I'd feel like an impostor and honestly I'd be very afraid of attracting a dude... I already do that too frequently for my tastes 
. Plus I kinda want a wife and children so it probably wouldn't be the best idea to make an awkward switch.
. Plus I kinda want a wife and children so it probably wouldn't be the best idea to make an awkward switch.+1
And I've been dumped twice (at least twice) because I wasn't, as the ladies put it, "aggressive enough"... I think some of this had to do with the fact that I am more "romantic" in the bedroom than they expect from a... dude.
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14 Oct 2010, 5:09 pm
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