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28 Sep 2017, 10:18 am

Now I feel kind of ashamed. I do know that there is never any reason to feel ashamed or guilty. :heart:


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28 Sep 2017, 12:36 pm

Kuraudo7777 wrote:
Now I feel kind of ashamed. I do know that there is never any reason to feel ashamed or guilty. :heart:


guilt is an appropriate response to hurting someone until you make it right. people who never feel guilt are sociopaths.



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28 Sep 2017, 12:50 pm

But if you did not hurt someone, or if you were totally innocent, or pulled along by events you could not control...then you still have to apologize to yourself, for beating yourself up over it. I believe that guilt only makes things worse and leads to lots of unhealthy stress, and that people can learn to live without it.


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28 Sep 2017, 1:20 pm

Officer Training Corps

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But even if i got in, peer reviews would make it easy for peers to vote me off

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28 Sep 2017, 3:17 pm

Kuraudo7777 wrote:
But if you did not hurt someone, or if you were totally innocent, or pulled along by events you could not control...then you still have to apologize to yourself, for beating yourself up over it. I believe that guilt only makes things worse and leads to lots of unhealthy stress, and that people can learn to live without it.


agreed that if no one was hurt, one needs to talk oneself out of guilt.



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28 Sep 2017, 3:40 pm

Ugh, neighbors across the street are having some sort of construction work done, and other neighbors are mowing their lawn. It's driving me bonkers.

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28 Sep 2017, 5:35 pm

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28 Sep 2017, 7:28 pm

I always manage to bugger up my interactions with people. Usually I'm at least moderately comprehensible in my autism group meetings but this time we'd switched rooms, and everything... the seating arrangement, the table, the windows, the new faces I didn't recognise... it was all throwing me off my game, tonight. Plus I nearly tripped when we left the room, and managed to bang my head against the table when searching to put a handout leaflet into my bag.


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28 Sep 2017, 9:04 pm

I've noticed autistic people are very vulnerable to NPD people. It's rather scary considering the many horror stories about NPD.

I've been telling all of my autistic friends about NPD people and to simply learn the signs so they can avoid like the plague and it seems to be working.


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28 Sep 2017, 9:26 pm

I'm not talking about that.
Or thinking about it.
It never happened.
La la la!


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28 Sep 2017, 9:29 pm

I am thinking of how awesome it would be to have a 10 foot tall teddy bear on my bed.


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29 Sep 2017, 8:04 am

Life will never be perfect

And what is perfect is subjective

Besides what if it were perfect, then what?

Whooptie do :D



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29 Sep 2017, 8:09 am

I really want/need a new truck, but damn are those prices high 8O



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29 Sep 2017, 3:51 pm

Hmm...Do I start playing my new game now, or wait for Tuesday?


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29 Sep 2017, 4:12 pm

Kuraudo7777 wrote:
Hmm...Do I start playing my new game now, or wait for Tuesday?


i vote for now.