gailryder17 wrote:
Why do people find the elderly "cute"?
I think some of us older folks who have learned to not take ourselves so seriously actually go out of our ways a bit to let others "enjoy us" a bit so we can try to help them see there really is no reason for any of us to take ourselves as seriously as we so often do. For example: I have in the past made funny faces while allowing (and even helping) my grandchildren braid my long beard rather than to have them in any way feel unnecessarily intimidated by me (such as when my having their attention is/was actually necessary for their own sake).
In contrast, however, I always had difficulty around my own grandparents and other older folk simply because, as I now see things, they actually
did take themselves (or at least some things like a bit of spilled paint once) far too seriously for
anyone's good.
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