How can I convince my dad to let me get this kitten?

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Okay, yesterday, I saw a kitten at the vet's which also sells pets. I thought she was too cute to give up, so I asked my mum if we could get her and she said ask dad. The thing is, he's hard to convince on this, as he doesn't want another cat (we already have 2). I've said I'll take full responsibility, and he said he and mum will talk. They did, but he still says no. Should I just give up? Or do you think I still have a shot? What are some things you would say in this particular situation?

Sorry to rain on your parade but most cats are much happier as only cats. If you already have 2 that are getting on well then you are doing very well indeed. An additional kitten could ruin that harmony in a heartbeat.

I recommend the cat behaviour books by Vicky Halls (a UK writer so not sure if you can get them easily), esp Cat Confidential. She has a website too so have a look there, http://www.vickyhalls.net/

First, it's your parent's home. They get to set the rules, including if you have pets, how many, and what kind. Second, you already have two cats, don't be greedy. Every single pet needs time, attention, energy, and money, as part of their care. Two pets need twice as much of all of this, as one pet. Three pets need three times as much of everything, as one pet. And don't kid yourself that you will do all of everything related to this kitten all of the time. Your mother would probably be the one doing most of the work related to the new pet, just as she is probably doing for the existing two cats. You should be thankful that they already let you have two cats. Don't add to the household expenses, and the household work load. And, don't give your parents a hard time on this. LET IT GO! Once you are on your own you can have more pets. Just make sure they are fixed.

Remember, we on the spectrum are all:

A Different Drummer

If a man does not keep pace with his companions,
Perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer.
Let him step to the music which he hears,
However measured or far away.

--Henry David Thoreau

Its always tempting to go mad and buy hundreds of your favourite pet, in my case rabbits. If you already have two cats, it is better to focus on them rather than bring a new kitten into the mix. This could upset your two current cats.

I agree with what everybody else said.

Thanks for the advice guys I won't keep trying to convince him then. A no is a no, right?

I love cats but a no is a no, if you're living at home, you have to respect your parents rules since it is their house, my advice would be to find another place when you are in a financial position to do so and my nan had 12 cats so you can never have too many.