What is the most striking feature of a person to you?

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06 Oct 2015, 11:52 pm

For me it's their overall appearance, both looks and the way they are dressed and the sound of their voice. I also focus on their teeth, because I don't like making eye contact. And I have a thing for teeth. Maybe I should become a dentist aha.



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07 Oct 2015, 11:39 am

their personality


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07 Oct 2015, 12:35 pm

Their voice.



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07 Oct 2015, 12:43 pm

It's a mixture - the personality first then eyes. BUT my Aspie friend's voice is wonderful too - I just love his accent! I guess it's a mixture of things that make up the whole package. Take the accent for example - I like different accents, but if the person's personality makes me sick then the accent also does the same because it's part of the whole person.


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07 Oct 2015, 3:56 pm

underwater wrote:
Their voice.
Same


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07 Oct 2015, 4:00 pm

It's a tie between mind, work & voice. Almost nothing can be as unique to a person as their thinking. Tatoos/piercings also tend to stay at the front of my mind, even though I don't have any yet.


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07 Oct 2015, 4:09 pm

Mind, voice, stature, personality, and other things that can be pieced together by appearance, but not appearance itself


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07 Oct 2015, 5:03 pm

One of these I guess, didn't really think this through. But still hard to choose...
Build, voice, (body) language [=overall presentation], intellect/talents, convictions.



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07 Oct 2015, 5:35 pm

I don't really know....I think it might be different for each individual.


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07 Oct 2015, 6:03 pm

Voice and eyes----and, I'm very envious of people who have good eyebrows (cuz mine, aren't ever good enough, for me; so, I always pay-attention, to them); also, if a woman has really pretty hands (I have NO idea, what THAT'S about).










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07 Oct 2015, 7:47 pm

Honesty and loyalty. Being trustworthy is the most important thing someone could be.



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07 Oct 2015, 8:23 pm

The voice, face and personality. I don't want a hag who treats me like s**t.



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07 Oct 2015, 8:35 pm

animalcrackers wrote:
I don't really know....I think it might be different for each individual.



I agree. Different qualities strike my notice, and the noticing mixtures of qualities in individuals. It feels like looking through a kaleidoscope.



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07 Oct 2015, 8:36 pm

For me it's got to be their eyes, voice, mannerism. I've always been attracted to guys with pale skin and dark eyes/hair and fairly tall. In terms of looks and guys that take care of their hygiene I find attractive too , guys like Richey Edwards from the manic street preachers, I find so handsome. I like sensitive and quietly spoken men but I do like guy with a dorky sense of humour too.
I've always been attracted to the rocker types or goth guys
although i'm not a goth myself.

Putting physical features aside, connection is key, haven't found connection yet with anyone.
Also someone that is faithful and honest, to me that's a major one quality and attraction.
Womanizers put me off



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08 Oct 2015, 12:42 am

It's hard for me to determine what kind of person is the person at first meeting.
I try not to be stricken by features at the early stage of meetings.
Still I try to find their trustworthiness after observing overall traits such as how he/she talks, acts
and how carefully listened to what I'm talking to..


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08 Oct 2015, 6:36 am

I think I gave wrong answer.

I'll answer again.

Teeth, Smile, Voice!


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