Trueno wrote:
The only times I have been described as "sweet" were as a prelude to being dumped... as in "you're very sweet... but..."
Oh. I have been told "You are just too nice for me to go out with you." I don't know what they mean by that.
While I am thinking along those lines, I once had a lady want to date me but I had to say "No" to because though she was a nice young lady but in the past I had had to be very concentrative around her as she was annoyed by my little stims so when I was near her (We were on a training course together and after being trained up we met now and then as she worked in the same job and she later asked me out), so being in the same enviroment with her was exhausting as it took effort not to stim.
Back then I didn't know they were called stims and had never heard of the NT or ND terms, but I am sure she was a definate NT. A nice lady though who I respect.
She started dating another gentleman from a different depot who happened to be on the same course as we had been and they married and lived happily ever after (I hope it was so as I ave not seen them for a while).
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