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07 Feb 2018, 1:04 am

Misogyny. And people who don't read the rules.



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07 Feb 2018, 4:41 pm

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07 Feb 2018, 10:15 pm

counselors/extroverts/almost everyone i have ever interacted with, are so theatrical. they act like every waking moment must be an Oscar winning performance. they act totally arrogant, like they are so awesome. they do not "pick your battles". they are big egoes".

at this point, i can pretty much predict accurately the counselor's response: "unfortunate thing that happened", "sorry", "distressed", "help", "people", "eat". euphemisms. "got mad", felt bad".

used to be really comfortable around her and confident in her skills.

but now it all seems like a flow chart.

unless she's talking about my diagnoses, she does not sound like she knows what she's talking about. she is not "lying", or making it up. but she is just way too dramatic.

and besides if it is so predictable, why don't i just tell myself what she would have told me.

counseling: can't cope with it. can't cope without it.



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07 Feb 2018, 11:11 pm

When I feel like people are stalking me on Second Life.

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07 Feb 2018, 11:22 pm

When someone asks "are you ok?", "may I help you?", Or "do you have a question?"

Like they know everything, and are so powerful, kind and awesome.

"Question" has a positive connotation, but it means "interrogative statement". As in CIA interrogation

How nobody wants to be my friend

How they care too much about appearances and $$$$

Even Democrats

How they get so dramatic



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07 Feb 2018, 11:32 pm

shortfatbalduglyman wrote:
it appears that, almost all the time, almost everyone acts like he/she (1) knows everything (2) is much more important than they are (3) is morally entitled to get whatever they want immediately (4) is deities' gift to the solar system (5) is morally innocent (6) is perfect (7) and entitled to judge/assess.


If it's almost everyone, then it's likely an aspect of the human species and perhaps we should be forgiving of these things much as we might be forgiving of cats for scratching on furniture, as annoying as it may be.

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they act so theatrical/dramatic/emotional. any time you do or say something they do not like, they tell you it is "disrespectful" or "rude". as if you invented disrespect. and then they unleash the full. unlimited amount of anger. and they act morally justified.


It would be unusual for one to go through life without upsetting someone. Some people you just can't win with. They will have to just be upset.

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it feels awkward, when strangers make conversation with me. or attempt to. b/c i feel guilty that i am not approachable. but if i am approachable, then the wrong type could approach me, just like the correct type.


I suppose in some instances it's appropriate for someone to seem approachable...are these people you work with or have some responsibility to?

shortfatbalduglyman wrote:
bowel movements often take a long time, with straining. often rocks. and feels incomplete.


This may be due to lack of fiber in your diet. A cup of steamed or boiled vegetables a day might help, though you should consult a doctor about your bowel issues. They may want to do a colonoscopy.



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08 Feb 2018, 6:17 pm

Humans and contemporary society


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08 Feb 2018, 7:12 pm

My mom refusing to seek treatment for her anger issues.


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08 Feb 2018, 8:42 pm

Chronos wrote:
shortfatbalduglyman wrote:
it appears that, almost all the time, almost everyone acts like he/she (1) knows everything (2) is much more important than they are (3) is morally entitled to get whatever they want immediately (4) is deities' gift to the solar system (5) is morally innocent (6) is perfect (7) and entitled to judge/assess.


If it's almost everyone, then it's likely an aspect of the human species and perhaps we should be forgiving of these things much as we might be forgiving of cats for scratching on furniture, as annoying as it may be.

yeah and i tolerate it.

shortfatbalduglyman wrote:
they act so theatrical/dramatic/emotional. any time you do or say something they do not like, they tell you it is "disrespectful" or "rude". as if you invented disrespect. and then they unleash the full. unlimited amount of anger. and they act morally justified.


It would be unusual for one to go through life without upsetting someone. Some people you just can't win with. They will have to just be upset.

"someone"? one? your entire life? that sounds pretty difficult. especially since some of us are racist, sexist, homophobic. "go back to your country!", someone had the nerve to tell me. "what you doing in my country," a separate (not overlapping the first one) stranger had the nerve to tell me. thus, i "upset" them (plural, two, at least), by living in the united states. furthermore, maybe other precious lil "people" feel angry, when i continue living. "people" literally means two or more, but it sounds like everyone in the world. and it sounds like i am not a person.

shortfatbalduglyman wrote:
it feels awkward, when strangers make conversation with me. or attempt to. b/c i feel guilty that i am not approachable. but if i am approachable, then the wrong type could approach me, just like the correct type.


I suppose in some instances it's appropriate for someone to seem approachable...are these people you work with or have some responsibility to?

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bowel movements often take a long time, with straining. often rocks. and feels incomplete.


This may be due to lack of fiber in your diet. A cup of steamed or boiled vegetables a day might help, though you should consult a doctor about your bowel issues. They may want to do a colonoscopy.


nine daily servings of fruit/veg
five to six daily liter water

went to at least five different medical doctors. told them about bowel movements. they did nothing, but talk to me. tell me to take Metamucil. tell me it's "ok". tell me to eat vegetables and drink water. nobody did a colonoscopy. thus far.

bowel movements. two to three per day. ten minutes to ninety minutes. usually rocks. the most recent bowel movement that did not involve/require straining, was several months ago or something.



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09 Feb 2018, 4:37 am

I'm overwhelmed. I really don't want to go to the office tomorrow and it's worrying me, also I have an appointment for a project and that also is worrying me a bit. I have swimming tomorrow which is all I want to do. I'm so tired. My head is starting to ache because I just calculated how much do I need to break free from my job and when could that really happen. I'm just really worried and my face felt a bit tingly. Also the level of tiredness I feel is the same as I had when I was anemic which also worries me. I really don't want to have that again, it took me about a year to be back at a decent level so that has me worried. I keep account of how I'm feeling emotionally and physically and took notice that it's only gotten worse. I don't know what happened since I've been eating so much better.

I just don't want to feel sick again. I want to feel and be productive again. And I can't stand my job anymore. Ugh. :(



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09 Feb 2018, 10:15 am

Why do people always think the only way to make the world a better place is by killing anyone they deem unworthy?

Oh right, because they're human. :roll:



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10 Feb 2018, 8:57 am

Whenever I think about homophobic precious lil "people" from San Diego, want to gorge

Almost all the time, almost everyone uses theatrical language. They act like they are awesome and have never done anything wrong before.

"Unfortunate thing that happened", "sorry", "helping people", "hurt", "you need counseling", "do you have a question?", "Are you ok?", "Do you need help?", "What?"



All day long there is nothing that I can do, that I want to do

When precious lil "people" think that i am wrong, bad, or "lying", they act like i am Public Enemy Number One. When it turns out that they were wrong, no apology, much less reparations



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10 Feb 2018, 11:21 am

Endless political statements and general inane chatter by commentators at the Winter Olympics



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10 Feb 2018, 11:25 am

The term "co-morbid." I think it's really depressing, with its association with death. "Co-existing condition" would be a better description in my case, since I'm generally in good health.



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10 Feb 2018, 11:56 am

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10 Feb 2018, 12:14 pm

the cliché of being unemployed, unable to find and keep a job because of so many reasons. always something i think about every morning and not knowing what my future holds, more annoyed that ive been failed by a system thats meant to help people but instead sanctions their welfare payments because one small altercation can leave someone without a home, food and basic needs. fortunately have myself dependent on family member to support me