You can't hurry love. No, you just have to wait.

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04 Apr 2022, 5:05 am

She said love don't come easy. It's a game of give and take.



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04 Apr 2022, 5:26 am

Well...Mama was right.

Whats your problem?



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06 Apr 2022, 5:25 pm

re: "game of give and take" - often it is in excess of 90% one or the other.



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07 Apr 2022, 12:58 pm

auntblabby wrote:
re: "game of give and take" - often it is in excess of 90% one or the other.


So true.



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07 Apr 2022, 9:25 pm

A lot of these classic "love songs" *sound* pretty or cool, but they sure do mention how sucky it actually is to be in love.

For example "I Will Always Love You" is really about the singer accepting the fact that she still loves the man who is with another woman. It's actually pretty sad. And people play this at their weddings.

"When a Man Loves A Woman" Seriously, who is this female dog he's in love with? He's sleeping out in the rain because she said that's where he ought to be. Should be more like "When a man has pneumonia". :lol:

"Every Breath You Take". Dude is seriously an obsessive stalker. Maybe that's why the band that played the song called themselves The Police, because they're out to arrest him. :P



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07 Apr 2022, 10:34 pm


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07 Apr 2022, 11:39 pm

lostonearth35 wrote:
A lot of these classic "love songs" *sound* pretty or cool, but they sure do mention how sucky it actually is to be in love.

For example "I Will Always Love You" is really about the singer accepting the fact that she still loves the man who is with another woman. It's actually pretty sad. And people play this at their weddings.

"When a Man Loves A Woman" Seriously, who is this female dog he's in love with? He's sleeping out in the rain because she said that's where he ought to be. Should be more like "When a man has pneumonia". :lol:

"Every Breath You Take". Dude is seriously an obsessive stalker. Maybe that's why the band that played the song called themselves The Police, because they're out to arrest him. :P

:lmao: :lol: :D :colors:



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08 Apr 2022, 2:12 am

Oh, now I see the problem. You're meant to communicate wants and not just wait. :| I needed you about 10 years ago, OP. Oh well again, at least that one showed devotion, so I'll wear it and try to avoid that self-hate. I figured something else out on my own though. You're also not meant to run away if the emotion is there and both sides want it (doesn't matter the reason for running).

Live and lose.

Live and learn.



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08 Apr 2022, 2:19 am

always say yes to love.



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08 Apr 2022, 2:22 am

On one hand...


But on the other hand, folks will try to steal it!



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08 Apr 2022, 2:45 am

love is one of those strange things that reeks to heaven when it pointedly eludes one, but is redolent of the sweetest flowers when it decides to visit one and to stick around.



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08 Apr 2022, 2:54 am

"one time I saw a wino eating grapes...I told him, dude you have to wait"

-mitch hedberg, though sadly he's dead so can't make anymore jokes.

But in all seriousness you can't force love, you do kind of just have to wait till it happens.


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08 Apr 2022, 3:11 am

many folk wait a lifetime and are permanently disenfranchised.



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09 Apr 2022, 12:48 am

"Love will make you do some crazy things."

As...SOME one recently said. Cant recall who. :lol:



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09 Apr 2022, 12:56 am

it made me drag my @$$ to fkkking arizona fer chrissakes, TWICE.



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09 Apr 2022, 1:04 am

You had a pen pal in Arizona?