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FrankStein
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02 Aug 2023, 8:37 am

In California, after the movie, there was the rather long time in the parked car. Kissing (I never did anything else...Well, maybe a brief touching of a clothes-covered breast.) I rather enjoyed that time because it did not involve conversation. One of the real handicaps of Asperger's is that we are not gifted with skills to talk in ways to achieve intimate feelings and thoughts. Girls were obviously not interested in my political analysis of the period we were in or the reasons for the French Revolution.
I had heard of "French kissing" and one time asked my current partner if she had ever heard of that (kissing with tongue in the other mouth). "Oh no! We can never do that! It makes me want to do things I don't want to do." she replied. Of course, respecting her wishes, I never did so and remained a virgin for another few years. Most other young boys would have recognized her response as more... ahhh... complex that I did. This was all in the 60s.



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14 Oct 2023, 5:38 am

never lasts...certainly didn't for my sister and her HS boyfriend.

But she did finally find a great guy and married him and well, I am happy to have him as a brother in law...and seems like he is happy to have me as a sister in law idk I am happy for my sister cause he does seem like someone who can be there for her but also likes her fun quirky side. Wheras her HS boyfriend was kind of s**t, but idk he was cute and though he ended up dating my sister I still tried hard to be friends with him and in HS that worked but then idk at least my sister and I grew up and he never did.


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15 Oct 2023, 12:14 pm

Uuuuuuhmmm, high schoolers are too young to date.. yikes! 8O College students, otoh.. :mrgreen:


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17 Oct 2023, 8:59 pm

I had no luck with female classmates during my high school years.

Many of my peers (male & female alike) viewed me as a "creep", a "weirdo" and a "Jesus freak."


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