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31 Jan 2024, 3:34 pm

Nearly 3 years ago this group of people (I’d say most of them were 10 years younger than me) virtually backed me into a corner with there mobile phones out and made me drop my pants exposing myself. I met up with the group outside my local pub a bit intoxicated and if was I sober I would never dream of approaching them.

Would I get 2 years in prison for this offence if the police found out or might my autism/vulnerability make the cops more sympathetic towards me?



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31 Jan 2024, 3:46 pm

i don't get it...what crime did you commit?


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31 Jan 2024, 3:48 pm

ocean wrote:
i don't get it...what crime did you commit?



Indecent exposure which technically is a sex offence



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31 Jan 2024, 3:49 pm

Jamesy wrote:
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i don't get it...what crime did you commit?



Indecent exposure which technically is a sex offence


but they forced you to do it


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31 Jan 2024, 3:53 pm

ocean wrote:
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ocean wrote:
i don't get it...what crime did you commit?



Indecent exposure which technically is a sex offence


but they forced you to do it




I bumped into one of them the other night at the pub and he said ‘allegedly’ the girls who were there that night i exposed myself to were only 13.

I thought the women looked more like early 20s than 13.



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31 Jan 2024, 4:14 pm

How did they force you?
Were you sexually assaulted?


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31 Jan 2024, 4:26 pm

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How did they force you?
Were you sexually assaulted?



I was not sexually assaulted no. They forced me by backing into a corner with there mobile phones



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31 Jan 2024, 4:34 pm

I don't understand what that means.
Were they bullying you, or hitting you with their phones?

Did you report it to police at the time?

It's their word against yours about what happened.
There's more of them than you.

They might have photo evidence.

You could be charged with indecent exposure to children, or invitation to touching.
If you jerked off, I believe it's even worse.

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31 Jan 2024, 4:37 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:
I don't understand what that means.
Were they bullying you, or hitting you with their phones?

Did you report it to police at the time?

It's their word against yours about what happened.
There's more of them than you.

They might have photo evidence.

You could be charged with indecent exposure to children, or invitation to touching.
If you jerked off, I believe it's even worse.

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No I did not jerk off and they did bully me getting there phones out.

The 2 girls that were there looked way older than 13. One of the guys also that recorded me I know for a fact was 23.



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31 Jan 2024, 4:41 pm

They would likely be prosectute and do jail time as they forced you to do it and without your conscent filmed it. Means they would be committing a serious sexual offence against a vunerable individual.

You were the victim. Not them. If they are claiming they can use the film as evidence they are blackmailing you wich is a further serious offence.


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31 Jan 2024, 4:42 pm

Mountain Goat wrote:
They would likely be prosectute and do jail time as they forced you to do it and without your conscent filmed it. Means they would be committing a serious sexual offence against a vunerable individual.



With modern day social media I wonder where the recordings of me went to?



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31 Jan 2024, 4:43 pm

Jamesy wrote:
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They would likely be prosectute and do jail time as they forced you to do it and without your conscent filmed it. Means they would be committing a serious sexual offence against a vunerable individual.



With modern day social media I wonder where the recordings of me went to?


Why it is a serious offence on their behalf. You were taken advantage of.


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31 Jan 2024, 4:46 pm

Jamesy wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
I don't understand what that means.
Were they bullying you, or hitting you with their phones?

Did you report it to police at the time?

It's their word against yours about what happened.
There's more of them than you.

They might have photo evidence.

You could be charged with indecent exposure to children, or invitation to touching.
If you jerked off, I believe it's even worse.

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No I did not jerk off and they did bully me getting there phones out.

The 2 girls that were there looked way older than 13. One of the guys also that recorded me I know for a fact was 23.



I'm sorry if that happened.
I'm not attempting to shame you, but I'm just saying how it could play out in court.
I've been there and done that when it comes to experiencing gang-related sex crimes.
Mine were filmed too.


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31 Jan 2024, 4:46 pm

Mountain Goat wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
Mountain Goat wrote:
They would likely be prosectute and do jail time as they forced you to do it and without your conscent filmed it. Means they would be committing a serious sexual offence against a vunerable individual.



With modern day social media I wonder where the recordings of me went to?


Why it is a serious offence on their behalf. You were taken advantage of.



A few months after the incident on Halloween a guy in my local bar (I was walking towards the dance floor) pointed his finger at me shouting “Pedophile”



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31 Jan 2024, 4:48 pm

I hope you stay far away from any place where this incident would be known.
If you piss someone off for any reason, they could report it in retaliation.
Keep your reputation intact by avoiding pubs, or loitering outside.


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31 Jan 2024, 4:52 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:
I hope you stay far away from any place where this incident would be known.
If you piss someone off for any reason, they could report it in retaliation.
Keep your reputation intact by avoiding pubs, or loitering outside.



Yeah but I go out to the pub once a week to socialise with some of my associates. The incident in 2021 years ago took place right next to the local pub I go to weekly


Late at night after I leave the pub a bit intoxicated I do loiter around a bit because I am a bit of a party animal. All I want to do is socialise with people not become a sex offender.