Edna3362 wrote:
My mom wants me to have a boyfriend.
My boss is offering me to request whatever preferences -- relationship, or sex, or both.
My cousins, coworkers and family friends are somewhat baffled.
Even strangers are surprised why the heck am I even not married or even had a kid from somewhere.
Uhhhh...
Best I'd tell everyone I'm asexual. Possibly aromantic. And explain what the heck does that mean.
In which, like many things in real life, I basically do not like anyone to know, let alone having to explain.
I'd rather ask my dad.
Whom I basically never initiated any contact (not his fault, he wants it yet I still don't).
But that's not exactly the most appropriate thing to ask after like basically 20 years of not ever seeing in real life, 15 years of no real conversation.
Really, who does that?
Suddenly a dad of two, who never went home from abroad for over 20 years, with one of his daughters who basically do not initiate any communication for years.
Suddenly, said daughter's first initiation of conversation is basically blurting out and ask why she wants a boyfriend.
My mom has for centuries now, has been trying to urge me to date and possibly get married; however where there's not a great many autistic people in my community at least, not from the outset, also I feel out of place with such as; I've never been on an actual date.