Am I mad? I really hate having breasts

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I love having breasts and the feeling of a warm suckling mouth on my nipples.

I hate my boobs so much. I wish I didn't have to wear a bra because I find them uncomfortable. My boobs are huge and definitely wish they could be a lot smaller or completely gone. I get frustrated when women talk about wanting bigger boobs because I don't see why anyone would want bigger boobs, I know I've even said sometimes to women who said they want bigger boobs that they could have some of mine I would gladly give them some of my boobs. ( Probably not the most appropriate thing to say but ya.)

I thought I was the only one. Mine increased from 30AA to 30B when I gained some weight but I still insist on wearing training bras because 'real' bras feel like I have metal rods jammed into my ribs and I can't breathe. I've made some peace with my boobs but I'd still rather not have them.

am going through the very long process of getting mine cut off.
am having to see the pyschologist first about it before it gets anywhere near the possibility of having it funded on the NHS but with mine have always felt acutely distressed by them ever since they started growing and its like they are a foreign body and not really a solid part of self,cant stand the site of them or the feel of them.

the new GP says it sounds like body dysmorphic disorder but dont agree with that at all as that is purely around the anxiety of a specific body part whereas its a lot more complex to mine,am certain have got gender dysphoria but due to having intelectual disability have got no concept of gender so cannot ever get to grips with the differences between male/female, personaly believe if wasnt ID woud have definitely been a FtM TG,as it is now- am adrogynous and get confused with being male all the time.


can anyone else relate at all?

I have hated mine since the day they started developing. It was so painful and sometimes they still hurt. Every time I have a mammogram they always find a suspicious lump and want to do a biopsy. I also hate wearing bras. They only ones I will wear are sports bras.

This is good. I feel the same way. Tried to get a reduction but didn't qualify. Tired of men looking at me as i'm an object. Especially an autistic object to take advantage of. I always get used because of this undiagnosed - yet diagnosed by family, friends, coworkers and exes aspergers. And the chest and appearance doesn't help filter out the users.

i hate having breasts too. 36c cup, pretty large for chinese. not large for some other races. bras uncomfortable and expensive. used to slouch to try to hide breasts. smaller breasts or no breasts would be so much more convenient. besides i have been taking testosterone since 2007 to transition to male.

I don't really hate having breasts. It's the bras that were obviously designed by a man that I hate.

I'm also really afraid of breast cancer. I had something of a scare some time ago, but I think it was just a cyst that healed on its own.

I don't know of anyone in my family who has breast cancer, but that doesn't make any difference.

I'm really afraid of taking the pill or HRT for menopause because I heard they cause breast cancer. And ovarian cancer. And nearly every other kind of cancer. And blood clots. And heart disease. Might as well be smoking a pack of cigarettes every day and drinking plutonium waste while you're at it.

I don't hate them. They're about the right size for my frame and hold up my clothes properly. Of course I rarely wear a bra so that probably helped.

I am honestly not mad about having breasts, but I feel lots of discomfort when wearing a bra no matter how comfortable the bra is.
my mother used to insist on it telling me the breasts will loose its original form now she doesn't bc she knows I clearly have sensory issues with it.

I don't know if there's anyone feeling the same; I feel like it takes lots of energy from me to keep a bra on.

I'm coming from Middle East so I'm not sure how it's viewed in western societies but in here it's unfortunately not appropriate to not to have a bra on, however the new generation is liberal

Well my response to everyone here is that i want to have more full boobs and willing to take on some of the discomfort. I just haven't been able to get on hormones.

Funny story, I am transgender and considered male at birth. When I was younger, I tried seeing a gender therapist so that I could get HRT. HRT wasn't offered on an informed consent basis in my state, so I needed a therapist letter to bring to the endocrinologist. The therapist was a elderly, white, gay cisgender man who had been doing this for some time.

First question on day one is if I wanted breast implants. I said no, in addition to privately finding it kind of dehumanizing he would start by going there. I saw him a significant number of times, while being charged all the while, and it did not go well from there (eg, not being attracted to men or wanting to marry a man was also the wrong answer). Eventually I realized he was never going to approve me or give me any time of timeline, so I had to travel out of state on the greyhound bus to find someone willing to do it on an informed consent basis. Once I started the HRT, I had to do the bus for follow up appointments every 6 month I believe, which took a full day.

I saw older transgender women talking about having to lie, show up to appointments in high heels, etc. I'm lucky I'm not any older than I was because I would not have been willing to misrepresent myself, even to get access to medical care. Of course, I don't blame anyone for doing that, but I especially wanted to be honest about this.

Anyway, I am mostly satisfied having smaller ones as it seems like it's easier. If I had the ability I would go slightly larger, but I use the silicone bra inserts and I am satisfied with my figure that way. Anyone who had an issue with this would not be someone who sees me without the inserts. I much prefer the inserts to having silicone in my body, at least, especially since it would need to be surgically replaced periodically.