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Age at diagnosis poll
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30+ 44%  44%  [ 31 ]
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06 Aug 2024, 3:03 pm

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07 Aug 2024, 12:03 am

I was diagnosed at 8 in 1996


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03 Sep 2024, 11:49 pm

RetroGamer87 wrote:
I was diagnosed at 8 in 1996


Fun fact: I was diagnosed at 7 in 2006.



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04 Sep 2024, 8:33 am

I was diagnosed at age 16.



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04 Sep 2024, 11:40 am

Only recently at 37. I suspected it for a while, but wasn't ready for the diagnosis.

I was diagnosed with OCD at age 12 (or so), but the more I learned about OCD, the less I could relate.


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04 Sep 2024, 2:54 pm

I was 35. I suspected and started researching in when I was 31.



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06 Sep 2024, 12:27 am

Late 20s. But it wasn't the diagnosis that was bad. It was having to hit rock bottom, be kicked out of the group home and left alone in the hospital a few days before Christmas before getting diagnosed that was bad.



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06 Sep 2024, 3:36 pm

My diagnosis was confirmed to me in an appointment a week after I turned 30. I'd guess the assessors had probably come to a conclusion more than a week before.



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06 Sep 2024, 3:38 pm

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08 Sep 2024, 10:31 am

I was diagnosed this year at the age of 38. I am 39 now.



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09 Sep 2024, 12:44 am

I was diagnosed with ADHD at 9 and autism at 30. Doctors always noted down my clear symptoms of autism, but only one really suspected it and never pursued it. I think that in the 90's they mixed both ADHD and autism even more up than now. But I knew that I have it already some years before, as I read a book about someone's life with Asperger.



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09 Sep 2024, 1:14 pm

Josch90 wrote:
I think that in the 90's they mixed both ADHD and autism even more up than now.
I'll note:

Asperger's Syndrome was added to the DSM in 1994 then absorbed into the Autism Spectrum in 2013.
Asperger's Syndrome and ADHD have many attributes in common
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The distinction might have been blurry in the 90's.


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09 Sep 2024, 2:25 pm

Double Retired wrote:
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The distinction might have been blurry in the 90's.


Now I am confused XD. I have all of the mentioned...
Like I have a wide variety of interests, but other topics, mostly those popular with other people, not at all.
I can concentrate on one interest for some time, than switch to the next, or have them simultanously in my mind and activities.
I can't stick to routin too well, except I need to have some routines, like when to wash my hair. I also need to plan stuff ahead of time and make sure I know where to be when.

Are there more obvious differences?


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09 Sep 2024, 2:32 pm

I'm ASD2 and ADHD-C.

Re: Routines.
I'm scattered and have no rhyme or reason in my own way of doing things, but if another person tries to interrupt or change what I'm doing so it's more structured, more "them", or more NT, I freak the heck out.

It's an inability to stick to routine on my own terms (no tracking apps, etc), but it's also a rigid adherence to doing things my way whatever that way may be, without much flexibility for external input.

My partner said once that I'm so "low maintenance" it makes me "high maintenance" .... because my wants and needs seem casual and disordered, but there's no way he can interfere or change any of it without me melting down.

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Re: Interests - I have a wide variety of very narrow interests.


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09 Sep 2024, 2:51 pm

Miryl wrote:
Double Retired wrote:
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The distinction might have been blurry in the 90's.


Now I am confused XD. I have all of the mentioned...
Like I have a wide variety of interests, but other topics, mostly those popular with other people, not at all.
I can concentrate on one interest for some time, than switch to the next, or have them simultanously in my mind and activities.
I can't stick to routin too well, except I need to have some routines, like when to wash my hair. I also need to plan stuff ahead of time and make sure I know where to be when.

Are there more obvious differences?
I know it is possible to have both ASD and ADHD...and that boggles my mind...but to go any deeper I defer to other WP members that have more in-depth knowledge than I do.


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09 Sep 2024, 3:24 pm

I am currently undiagnosed. The closest I've come is: r/o Autism Spectrum Disorder - Veteran appears to meet diagnostic criteria but has not been formally assessed.

IsabellaLinton wrote:
I'm ASD2 and ADHD-C.

Re: Routines.
I'm scattered and have no rhyme or reason in my own way of doing things, but if another person tries to interrupt or change what I'm doing so it's more structured, more "them", or more NT, I freak the heck out.



I suffer from the same paradoxical relationship with routines. I have trouble establishing a daily routine, but I do have a very specific way of doing things and any disruption can quickly escalate to anger/rage. If it gets particularly bad, just refraining from self-injury can require substantial effort. :?


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