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13 Jul 2010, 4:09 pm

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What indicates a guy is flirting? My husband said if they're talking to you at all, about anything, it's because they want to sleep with you. Do you guys agree?



When Harry Met Sally wrote:
Harry: You realize of course that we could never be friends.
Sally: Why not?
Harry: What I'm saying is — and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form — is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way.
Sally: That's not true. I have a number of men friends and there is no sex involved.
Harry: No you don't.
Sally: Yes I do.
Harry: No you don't.
Sally: Yes I do.
Harry: You only think you do.
Sally: You say I'm having sex with these men without my knowledge?
Harry: No, what I'm saying is they all want to have sex with you.
Sally: They do not.
Harry: Do too.
Sally: They do not.
Harry: Do too.
Sally: How do you know?
Harry: Because no man can be friends with a woman that he finds attractive. He always wants to have sex with her.
Sally: So you're saying that a man can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive?
Harry: No, you pretty much want to nail them, too.


LMAO I'm pretty sure this is not true.


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13 Jul 2010, 4:10 pm

happymusic wrote:
Willard wrote:
happymusic wrote:
What indicates a guy is flirting? My husband said if they're talking to you at all, about anything, it's because they want to sleep with you. Do you guys agree?



When Harry Met Sally wrote:
Harry: You realize of course that we could never be friends.
Sally: Why not?
Harry: What I'm saying is — and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form — is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way.
Sally: That's not true. I have a number of men friends and there is no sex involved.
Harry: No you don't.
Sally: Yes I do.
Harry: No you don't.
Sally: Yes I do.
Harry: You only think you do.
Sally: You say I'm having sex with these men without my knowledge?
Harry: No, what I'm saying is they all want to have sex with you.
Sally: They do not.
Harry: Do too.
Sally: They do not.
Harry: Do too.
Sally: How do you know?
Harry: Because no man can be friends with a woman that he finds attractive. He always wants to have sex with her.
Sally: So you're saying that a man can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive?
Harry: No, you pretty much want to nail them, too.


lol, yes, that was sort of our conversation. :lol:

See, guys don't seem to flirt. I'm soooo confused....


Men do flirt. They're just more direct. This is the main reason I ended up with a man instead of a woman as a partner. I picked up on the direct approach. lol


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13 Jul 2010, 4:11 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Willard wrote:
happymusic wrote:
What indicates a guy is flirting? My husband said if they're talking to you at all, about anything, it's because they want to sleep with you. Do you guys agree?



When Harry Met Sally wrote:
Harry: You realize of course that we could never be friends.
Sally: Why not?
Harry: What I'm saying is — and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form — is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way.
Sally: That's not true. I have a number of men friends and there is no sex involved.
Harry: No you don't.
Sally: Yes I do.
Harry: No you don't.
Sally: Yes I do.
Harry: You only think you do.
Sally: You say I'm having sex with these men without my knowledge?
Harry: No, what I'm saying is they all want to have sex with you.
Sally: They do not.
Harry: Do too.
Sally: They do not.
Harry: Do too.
Sally: How do you know?
Harry: Because no man can be friends with a woman that he finds attractive. He always wants to have sex with her.
Sally: So you're saying that a man can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive?
Harry: No, you pretty much want to nail them, too.


LMAO I'm pretty sure this is not true.


I dont flirt at all so I really have no place to say anything. That dialogue sequence though had me laughing pretty good though


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13 Jul 2010, 4:12 pm

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I thought about writing a song about flirting (long before I got married). It was going to be called "Hit Me Over the Head With a Two-by-four!" :lol:

Haven't written it yet.... :scratch:


You should.


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13 Jul 2010, 4:15 pm

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I thought about writing a song about flirting (long before I got married). It was going to be called "Hit Me Over the Head With a Two-by-four!" :lol:

Haven't written it yet.... :scratch:


You should.


I will! It's been on the back burner for a long time (fifteen years!), but I've never forgotten about it.


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13 Jul 2010, 4:22 pm

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LMAO I'm pretty sure this is not true.


I've remembered it for over twenty years because I thought it was SO true, I was shocked and delighted to hear someone actually admitting it out loud.



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13 Jul 2010, 4:31 pm

MrXxx wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
MrXxx wrote:
I thought about writing a song about flirting (long before I got married). It was going to be called "Hit Me Over the Head With a Two-by-four!" :lol:

Haven't written it yet.... :scratch:


You should.


I will! It's been on the back burner for a long time (fifteen years!), but I've never forgotten about it.


I have a few writing projects I started years ago. I doubt I'll ever finish them. I'm really good at starting, but I often write myself into a corner and don't know how to fix it. lol


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13 Jul 2010, 4:33 pm

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LMAO I'm pretty sure this is not true.


I've remembered it for over twenty years because I thought it was SO true, I was shocked and delighted to hear someone actually admitting it out loud.


I hope it's not true. I just don't want any of my male acquaintances thinking about having sex with me while I'm trying to talk politics.


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13 Jul 2010, 5:18 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
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TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
LMAO I'm pretty sure this is not true.


I've remembered it for over twenty years because I thought it was SO true, I was shocked and delighted to hear someone actually admitting it out loud.


I hope it's not true. I just don't want any of my male acquaintances thinking about having sex with me while I'm trying to talk politics.



Force o'nature. Ya just can't stop it. Don't let it get to you, most of them will never admit it. :P But they do. :wink:



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13 Jul 2010, 5:30 pm

Willard wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
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LMAO I'm pretty sure this is not true.


I've remembered it for over twenty years because I thought it was SO true, I was shocked and delighted to hear someone actually admitting it out loud.


I hope it's not true. I just don't want any of my male acquaintances thinking about having sex with me while I'm trying to talk politics.



Force o'nature. Ya just can't stop it. Don't let it get to you, most of them will never admit it. :P But they do. :wink:


I refuse to believe it. 8O


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13 Jul 2010, 5:33 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Willard wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Willard wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
LMAO I'm pretty sure this is not true.


I've remembered it for over twenty years because I thought it was SO true, I was shocked and delighted to hear someone actually admitting it out loud.


I hope it's not true. I just don't want any of my male acquaintances thinking about having sex with me while I'm trying to talk politics.



Force o'nature. Ya just can't stop it. Don't let it get to you, most of them will never admit it. :P But they do. :wink:


I refuse to believe it. 8O


It is true, but keep refusing to believe it. Cause if you start believing it, you'll never be able to keep a straight face discussing politics again! :lol:


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13 Jul 2010, 5:35 pm

MrXxx wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Willard wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Willard wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
LMAO I'm pretty sure this is not true.


I've remembered it for over twenty years because I thought it was SO true, I was shocked and delighted to hear someone actually admitting it out loud.


I hope it's not true. I just don't want any of my male acquaintances thinking about having sex with me while I'm trying to talk politics.



Force o'nature. Ya just can't stop it. Don't let it get to you, most of them will never admit it. :P But they do. :wink:


I refuse to believe it. 8O


It is true, but keep refusing to believe it. Cause if you start believing it, you'll never be able to keep a straight face discussing politics again! :lol:


Politics has a whole new meaning to me now. I was wondering why one of my acquaintances actually remembered my political stance.


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30 Jul 2010, 3:55 pm

I have a serious question: Is it okay if I flirt with a married woman?



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30 Jul 2010, 3:56 pm

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I have a serious question: Is it okay if I flirt with a married woman?


The answer to that varies depending on the type of flirting and which woman you're planning to flirt with.

It is not okay to look for a relationship beyond friendship with a married woman unless she is in an open marriage.


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30 Jul 2010, 3:58 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Craig28 wrote:
I have a serious question: Is it okay if I flirt with a married woman?


The answer to that varies depending on the type of flirting and which woman you're planning to flirt with.


I'm thinking of doing it to my female befriender.



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30 Jul 2010, 4:49 pm

I can only tell when guys have been VERY direct with me. Other times, I don't know if they are just trying to be nice or if they are interested. I got in trouble before pursuing guys that were just trying to be nice.


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