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MotherKnowsBest
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12 Nov 2010, 9:14 am

Because they are horrible people who build themselves up by putting others down.

I've become very intolerant in my old age. Before I used to try and be friends with everyone, like it was my responsibility to make them like me. Now I can't be bothered and if someone is horrible or says something horrible, I cut them off completely. They don't exist anymore.



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12 Nov 2010, 9:58 am

Sounds like Aspiphobia :idea:



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12 Nov 2010, 10:53 am

Are there really people who are afraid of aspies?
I mean, what are they afraid of?
But it wasn't the first bad reaction I got, but this one was the worst.
I was called ret*d before and freak and also some people have strange ideas about what it means to be autistic, but what are people like the girl who called me ret*d mutant afraid of?
I don't get why some people hate others, just because they live a different life, have a different religion or think different. That's just illogical..



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12 Nov 2010, 12:33 pm

I think that she acted like ad a**hole. She knows it is difficult for you to react when you are abused and enjoys it. An average NT knows what she is saying something insulting (I am an NT, less than average...).
She wanted to abuse you and to be funny at the same time, but she failed the second thing because she is not sophisticated enough to be capable of irony.
If someone does it again, ask him/her to apologize or to repeat what he/she said in presence of other persons to show how fearless he/she is insulting a person who has a social disorder that prevents him to defend against it.
I assure you that she has done a thing to be embarassed for.
(I apologize for my syntax, when I am angry my english worsen)



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12 Nov 2010, 12:47 pm

Anyone who's the least bit mature will read her FB post and decide she's a ranting idiot. "ret*d mutant" sounds like something a 12-year old thought up because she didn't know any grown-up words. Unless she is 12 years old, which would merely make her rude, she is making herself sound as stupid and backward as possible, almost like a Village Idiot.



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12 Nov 2010, 12:51 pm

I'm baffled about it. People don't always care what you have and will still treat you the same way as before. That's why telling people what you have or may have is useless because not everyone cares and I mean in a bad way.

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I think that she acted like ad a**hole. She knows it is difficult for you to react when you are abused and enjoys it. An average NT knows what she is saying something insulting (I am an NT, less than average...).



Actually, NT's don't always know when they are being insulting either, they can also make jokes or say things and not mean to be offensive nor know it will offend. But you did say average so maybe all those NTs that do those social faux's are below average. :wink:



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12 Nov 2010, 12:52 pm

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I'm soo upset :( I went shopping, and met someone I went to school with once.
We never were friends or so, but she started talking, so after she told me what job she has and such things, I told her that I might have AS and explained it to her.
After that she said: I always knew that something with you was wrong, but now I know you are a ret*d mutant.
I was speechless :( I don't understand this, I mean, why did she talk to me, if she don't like me?
If I don't like someone, I don't talk to them. This reaction makes me sad :( I can't stop thinking about this..





! !! !! 8O


I would've been sorely tempted to pummel this schmuck within an inch of her life!! ! :x


Where did you encounter this piece of trash? In Wal-Mart or something??? :roll:



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12 Nov 2010, 3:51 pm

Lindowyn,

Sometimes we have to be careful with what we tell people about ourselves. It is a sad fact that we do share this world with some nasty idiots who will take this information and use it for their own sedistic joy. It really baffles me how this trash can assume superiority over us.
The truth is her comments have told us a lot more about her, but nothing legitimate about you.
We have no control over the way we are, yet these A holes are in full calculated control over their cowardly pathetic attemps to maintain dominence of their neurotype. This seems to be the only way they know how to do this. I am learning to look at situations like this as a promt to be as better person as I can. This shows these idiots up for what they truly are, TRASH.



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12 Nov 2010, 4:11 pm

Lindowyn wrote:
I'm soo upset :( I went shopping, and met someone I went to school with once.
We never were friends or so, but she started talking, so after she told me what job she has and such things, I told her that I might have AS and explained it to her.
After that she said: I always knew that something with you was wrong, but now I know you are a ret*d mutant.
I was speechless :( I don't understand this, I mean, why did she talk to me, if she don't like me?
If I don't like someone, I don't talk to them. This reaction makes me sad :( I can't stop thinking about this..

That's why I don't like talking about personal information unless I know the person really well because people are generally apt to make a flippant comment about what I am telling them. People enjoy being flippant, they think it's funny.



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12 Nov 2010, 4:33 pm

I am sorry you had to experience this. Obvoiusly she has not matured since jr high...so by her saying that she only provided evidence that SHE the real ret*d mutant because she has not socially-emotionally matured past 12. ...You are welcome to use that to post on yur fb page.

Becides that is called transference where she accuses you of being how she views herself so she can punnish you instead of herself for being a ret*d mutant.

btw...you are much better than she is...and not a ret*d mutant


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12 Nov 2010, 11:46 pm

ohh and I need to say one more thing....the other reason she was so awful to you...is probably because she is an emotional parasite. You are so much more than she is.
Dont worry about it...just slam her on your fb as the parasite she is...and go on.
People like that are oxygen theives...just a waste of human breath.


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12 Nov 2010, 11:53 pm

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The thing that confuses me most is, that after she said that to me, she walked away without saying another word to me.
If it was a joke, then it was a bad one in my opinion :(


I agree with you :(

especially if she walked away without another word it seems like she was just being mean

I will try to be mature and refrain from saying something mean about her ....

Shadi



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13 Nov 2010, 12:05 am

Shadi2 wrote:
Lindowyn wrote:
The thing that confuses me most is, that after she said that to me, she walked away without saying another word to me.
If it was a joke, then it was a bad one in my opinion :(


I agree with you :(

especially if she walked away without another word it seems like she was just being mean

I will try to be mature and refrain from saying something mean about her ....

Shadi


I have learned that taking the high road only makes one a doormat when it comes to people like this. If she were to continue bothering you...I suggest verbal self defense and offense


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13 Nov 2010, 1:21 am

You could make her life hell. If you can, get a screenshot of her personal FB page and send that post to every news outlet and blog about. Let the world see her for the evil sociopath she is. In Canada, she could be charged for a hate crime under our laws ( bullying a person online maliciously for the purpose of spreading hatred toward a minority group or those with disabilities). If you are not in Canada, talk to a lawyer about what your options are with respect to online bullying remedies you could get both criminally and civil. I think this little sociopath may have broken a few laws. With a pdf screenshot brought to the authorities, you could nail her arse to the wall and maybe even ruin what she has for a pathetic life.


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13 Nov 2010, 1:39 am

i would of ended up in jail i would of snapt and beat her ass 2 a pulp



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13 Nov 2010, 1:43 am

Thanks a lot for your support, I really appreciate it :)
I blocked her on fb, as well as all the other ex-classmates who commented with lol or she is a freak.
First I wanted to fight them, but its not worth the energy or effort. I tried to fight them at school and they still bullyied me, I think they just need someone to be mean to.
I think we have anti-bullying laws to, but normally the authorities don't take bullying serious.
And I just don't have the energy to fight them like that.
But I did log in with a friends account who is friends with her ( only on fb) and I read some of her other wall posts and they are all about bullying other people, boys or shopping :roll:

What I don't understand is, she is 21, like me, how could she be like that? I have last seen her when we were 14, but she don't seemed more mature than when she was 14..n :roll:
I really hope I don't see her again, because I'm not good at verbal duels. I never know what to say until its like 5 hours later :(