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TenPencePiece
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10 May 2011, 1:06 pm

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Too many variables. It really depends on the context of the interaction and the environment in which they are taking place in.

Well, let's compare them in these two situations then.
Situation one, an environment that you're comfortable in with friends or good acquaintances.
Situation two, a public place with many people you don't know around you, and people who are acquaintances but are friendly towards you.


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10 May 2011, 1:16 pm

6-7 minutes. after that amount of time, i can not remain present, and i "excuse" myself from their network and depart.



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10 May 2011, 2:40 pm

I work in a call center and that requires socializing. I can keep it up the entire shift between my breaks but I do need them!


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10 May 2011, 2:43 pm

i don't think that there is a "maximum time" that we can socialize.

If I can talk about my current obsessive interest with someone else, I'll be okay for long. But if I can't have a conversation about the stuff that I find really interesting, I'll zone out fast and I will start stimming.

With strangers I'll most likely zone out fast unless I'm the one talking. Also, like most said already, if it's too crowded, it's overwhelming so I can't socialize for a long time.



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10 May 2011, 3:53 pm

LostInEmulation wrote:
I work in a call center and that requires socializing. I can keep it up the entire shift between my breaks but I do need them!


Is that really socializing or just rehearsing scripts? I take support calls as part of my job but it's entirely "memorized" responses. There is very little actual social interaction.


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10 May 2011, 5:20 pm

I can usually fake it for a 1-2 hours, but then I start spacing out and losing the flow of conversation, to the point where I can concentrate even less than normal. staying with everyone else's pattern, If I'm with a crowd of people, especially rowdy and loud people, I snap shut.



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10 May 2011, 5:26 pm

1 to 2 hours. After that I start feeling mentally and emotionally exhausted, possibly even overwhelmed, and I need to be left alone to "recharge".



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10 May 2011, 5:27 pm

Foreva.

Provided I like the person.



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10 May 2011, 5:27 pm

It depends on the type of socializing, and who I am with. If I was somewhere comfortable, maybe a house that I am familiar with, If I had a seat that I was comfy in, and if there was no tv going, then I'd say I could last 3 or so hours. On days where I meet up with my one friend, and we take our kids to playgroup, go to the playground, then usually have lunch at someones house. We can easily spend an entire day together...but it's because it revolves around my special interest which is my son/kids. So that's different.


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10 May 2011, 6:13 pm

From 1 to 20 minutes, depending on a lot of things.

I've managed it for 2 or more hours without a break many times (but not in years, now), but after about an hour I start having to fight falling asleep (from shutdown; not boredom ).



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24 May 2011, 3:32 am

TenPencePiece wrote:
How long can you socialise for before you feel the need to step back or "recharge"?
Generally, when I've been socialising for about 2-3 hours, I tend to zone out a lot and find that talking requires more effort the longer you are with people, and the desire to be alone increases. But this can depend on who I'm talking to and if I'm tired or not.
I'd be interested in your replies.



Same with me, and if I havn't taken Adderall I don't usually talk as much. It helps me with being social.



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24 May 2011, 3:54 am

From an hour to about three, it depends on with whom I am with, how many people are around, what we are talking about and so many other factors. Without Adderall I don't usually talk much or contribute a great amount to any conversation. When I take it, it helps me tremendously with being social and fights off the fatigue I feel from socializing. I have to have plenty of time to myself without noise from others daily. Too much going on around me, like a lot of people in one room: some watching television, kids playing a hand-held game with the volume on, a person talking on their cell... can make me want to scream if it is too loud, just too much going on! I get irritable, I have to get away and be on my own. I have become good at noticing what I need to do when I become this way. If, I can't escape I feel edgy. I can't function and fear losing it. I become exhausted. Now, if it isn't too noisy I can usually be just fine.



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24 May 2011, 8:28 am

ten minutes, tops. Except for my grandchildren. I can socialize with them indefinitely.

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24 May 2011, 9:23 am

I can push through a lot of it if I have to. I will need MEGA down/rest time after any seriously long event though. Sometimes I go down for weeks after business travel with a lot of socializing and this is even with breaks in my hotel room.



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24 May 2011, 9:29 am

1-2 hours sounds reasonable to me.


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24 May 2011, 9:51 am

It depends on whom I'm talking to, but it can be 5 minutes to 15.


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