Have you been treated unfairly?

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LemonPieForAPirate
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04 Oct 2011, 8:50 am

(edited) Feels uncomfortable for sharing my personal experiences which i wrote so ive removed them. Its not good to b***h about those who were involved.

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MakaylaTheAspie
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04 Oct 2011, 8:54 am

LemonPieForAPirate wrote:

Yes, yes, yes, from being locked up in a crazy house, to brain scans, to no home, to constant abuse real life and online, to the many lists which keep on growing.
Recently though ive hit a hard blow thats been blamed on autism.
My ex fiance, who i was with for quite a time finally decided he couldnt deal with my horseshite autism any more, his words. That is really the very short way of putting things. I have no friends cause i cant socialise and people think im a liar so it took a lot for me to try and have a relationship of some kind, and people i know cant understand, so it has been a very low blow when he wrote a list of my difficulties and obsessions and decided it was too much to deal with and left.

</3

*sympathetic side hug*

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LemonPieForAPirate
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04 Oct 2011, 4:06 pm

you're sweet

dontslowmedown
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05 Oct 2011, 4:22 pm

Amik wrote:

Good attitude dontslowmedown.

I wish it made a difference. I treat people as fairly as i can and it never gets returned. I could lash back i suppose but i think walking away is the fairer option for everyone, even if nobody ever appreciates you for it.

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06 Oct 2011, 9:01 am

I was treated badly two years ago this week, when I was staying over at my parents place. Instead of my mum congratulating myself for going back to being myself, (The members who joined before September 2009 know what I'm talking about). I was mentally abused by my mum for being the way that I am on a couple of occasions and she threatened to put me in the hospital three times. Why? Because I went from being a fake punk rocker to liking the 60s and The Kinks again! Being abused for going back to being myself again. I'm amazed that I didn't OD on my Paxil and Risperidone.

I've only mentioned 5 words about The Kinks the day before Thanksgiving and I haven't said anything else to my mum about that obvious special interest of mine. Obvious in the sense that I wear the T-Shirts and the vintage looking clothes.

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06 Oct 2011, 9:04 am

LemonPieForAPirate wrote:

you're sweet

Thank you.

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19 Oct 2011, 9:41 pm

Catamount wrote:

Yes! I've worked for the same organization for the last 20 years and have consistently been denied the promotion I deserve. Seriously, just in terms of objective observation, I have outperformed (in almost every way conceivable) most of my co-workers throughout my career, but have watched a whole line of high social performers get promoted while I wallow in the same position. Apparently, having a good golf score and/or being a good drinking buddy is far more important than actual job performance when it comes to promotions.

I can't help but be reminded of a few posts I read not long ago on Everything2:

http://everything2.com/title/Perils+of+ ... t+your+job
http://everything2.com/title/The+Peter+Principle
http://everything2.com/title/The+Dilbert+Principle
http://everything2.com/title/The+Theory ... Competence

Life just sucks at times. Stuff like this just reminds me that we as a society (& species) have quite a ways to go before we can even hope of being civilised.

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20 Oct 2011, 1:24 am

Catamount wrote:

WOW can I relate to this. I was actually fired for attendance due to a disability (skin condition) and TOTALLY ILLEGAL

because I did a great job and was not lazy or dumb the union failed to defend me properly. ! !.

HR was out to get me because of my attendance, sabotaged an insurance claim that was eventually approved, after the claim processor was fired for listening to "their personal opinions". I didn't even meet the criteria for termination (points based system)
I was even told that I didn't meet the criteria for FMLA when in fact I DID ! !

I've been fighting for 3yrs now, what an incredibly slow process that empowers the "wrong doer" and makes the person being descriminated against go thru HELL...and I still don't have an idea how much longer this is going to take ! I'm finally into federal court >complaint filed and their reply recieved now awaiting "discovery" and meeting with magistrate judge for possible settlement. Probably very backed up court system and I can't get an answer as to time frame !

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AngelofDreams
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20 Oct 2011, 10:36 am

I've been trough lots of bullying in school, in a wide range of different kind of bullying, mostly because I were a push-over.

And then there's all the accusations from my own family, causing me to have meltdowns.
I even got physically beaten by my mom for a mistake I did. Not to mention I was locked inside a room at a daycare centre for children with disabilities, because I accidentally ran a baby carriage toy into one of the staff members' legs... On the FIRST day there too.

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