Joe90 wrote:
Lillikoi wrote:
I can't remember very well, but I think I got diagnosed back in maybe first grade.
I probably wouldn't have been diagnosed until now had it not been for the insistence of one of my teachers, who told my parents that she suspected I might be on the spectrum.
That is similar with me. I was typically developing as a baby and showed no peculiar behaviour or lacked in any milestones enough to cause concern for my parents. Then when I started school at 4 years old I suddenly behaved very unexpectedly, what shocked the teachers and my parents. At first the teachers thought it was caused by child abuse and had to question my parents, and me and my brother nearly got took away from them. They had to prove that they did not abuse me at all, and after they got proof, the social worker got in touch and they spent a few years trying to investigate my behaviour and development to see what was wrong, until they got me a diagnosis when I was 8. If it hadn't been for that unexpected ''shocking'' behaviour I apparently showed when I started school, my Asperger's probably would have gone unnoticed until at least in my teens.
This is what happened with my son. He was rather normally developing, talking in full sentences by 3 and could program a DVD player/video game etc... By 4.
My father called CAS and accused me of being a neglectful mother and saying he was still in diapers and couldn't talk and a bunch of other wild crap.
They came and did their investigation and he was talking up a storm, not in diapers, and hooking up his vsmile (leaning video game system - only way I could get him school ready... He wouldn't do flash cards or any other way).
They closed the case and wrote it off as a drunk call basically. As that as what it was.
When he started school the behaviours started. He was a very helpful kid and attached himself to a boy with spinal bifida to help him, but was having compliance issues and aggression. I took him to my dr and he sloughed it off as typical 5 year old behaviour, told me to come back in a couple years and we will reads.
As years went on the behaviours got worse, he was being very aggressive and throwing things and was in trouble (office sent) daily. This was grade 1. So I took him back and my dr said it's likely ADHD, and we started him on Concerta. Took a while to get a good dose but he's been at the highest for Concerta for 4 years almost.
Behaviours never really subsided, his attention is better but socially and behaviourally he was very difficult right up until we switched his school. Now it's better because his teacher is very visual with her day plan on the chalk board and he's happy as long as nothing changes. As soon as it changes he notices immediately and starts building anxiety.
He has been at this school since this past sept, and only this week had his first aggressive episode where a chair was thrown because he was asked to stop a task that he was liking and interested in and hyper focused on.
Next day I got a call saying that after 3 years waiting, we finally have a paediatrician appt in April for his behaviours.
I am likely going to bring up my concerns regarding myself as well if she will listen (after fully discussing my son). I was curious of how and who diagnosed everyone because I want to know how close were getting, but looks like we have a while to go still. My dr is kinda useless and has no clue about ADHD or autism. He's very behind in his knowledge. Had my son been non verbal we would probably have a diagnosis.... But he wasn't exhibiting noticable signs till school.