Thank you to everyone's suggestions I will try to put the to good use.
well most of them I can't really see myself drugging my brothers with Dramamine, but I appreciate the thought. And it's not that I don't love my brothers it's just that we get sick of each other and take out our frustrations with being cooped up and (insert long list I am too lazy to write) On each other. If anyone has any suggestions for ignoring the arguing or stopping it without getting involved or preventing it (preferable ) they would be appreciated. Again thank you to anyone who replied to this topic. 