wavefreak58 wrote:
fb5b wrote:
Are NT's discriminating against AS? I doubt it, I think they are picking up of, from what is apparant from this forum, a LOT of self pity and anger at the world which is creating a belief that there is someone to blame.
I'm diagnosed AS, I have worked since I was 15, and am now a Senior Accountant. Lose the persecution complex perhaps things will improve.
Good for you.
I've also worked since I was 15. But my own challenges have left me in tenuous situations along several axes of how success is contemporarily measured.
The world does not persecute me. But it is fabulously, sublimely, and irrevocably indifferent to my existence. There is a phrase "Your ship will come in". The pessimistic response is that "I missed it when my ship came in". For some autistics, they don't even know there is a harbor so all this talk of ships is nothing but confusing.
Exactly.
I do not have a "persecution complex," I am merely a cynic. No one is "picking" on me, but people are largely indifferent to me with any discrimination on their part being largely due to ignorance and unconscious tribalism.
But "pulling yourself up by your bootstraps" is only feasible when one has access to bootstraps to begin with. Alas, people have a propensity to attribute all of their success in life to "hard work" and the success of others to be the result of "having advantages," while being perfectly blind to their own advantages in life. When it comes to employment, it's ultimately not up to you if you get a job or not, it's up to the Gatekeepers in the HR office. You can be the hardest working mofo in Dodge, but if the hiring manager doesn't like your shade of lipstick, you're boned. That's not even counting people with real hurdles.
I fail to see why some people feel that their personal situation can extrapolate to the general population. Good for you for being the right person in the right place at the right time for the right job; it ain't so for many of us.
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