2ukenkerl wrote:
The bit about the incontinence, etc... I think should be in another forum. It ISN'T a good picture, and may lead people to believe everyone here has that problem.
For some of us on here it is a real issue and a real outgrowth of our autism-related perceptual differences.
None of us have said everyone has it, but some of us do. And we've all been clear it's only a problem for some people.
It's degrading to come on and tell us that we ought to go off somewhere else and hide the fact we have trouble with that, just so that you can rest assured that nobody will think
you are "like that". Even worse to make it sound like there's something
more wrong with having that problem than with having other autism-related problems. And like those of us who do have the problem just ought to shut up about it.
Also -- in general, not just to you -- what is it with people being seemingly obsessed with
never hearing about experiences different than their own, because if it was publicly known that some autistic people, say, were savants, or lost abilities in puberty, or could talk, or couldn't go to the bathroom, or couldn't talk... or
whatever, then "people would think we're all like that"? What's with "people would think we're all like that" anyway? I don't get it and it's really irritating to hear it all the time just trying to discuss our real lives and people jumping in and going "don't say that, people might think I'm like that too". ERRRRGH. It gets aggravating after awhile, and when accompanied by apparent disgust with the subject matter, also degrading.
So, by the way, is the thing the OP keeps saying about "bettering ourselves", as if we just could do all these things consistently if we
wanted to enough, and as if most of us haven't been treated like crap our whole lives by anyone who noticed we couldn't do it.
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