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jamieg
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02 Aug 2009, 11:41 am

i have a easier time to chat with people on the internet than in person and wondering how many others are like this



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02 Aug 2009, 1:54 pm

will you kindly hand me my snooker stick, its my turn to shoot. this is for the queen!


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jamieg
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02 Aug 2009, 3:22 pm

that comment has nothing to do with the topic

if you want to be funny then you failed and this is not where to post these things



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02 Aug 2009, 3:34 pm

These days, I like it much better to talk to people in person than on-line. When I first joined a message board 2 years ago, I noticed that it was easier to talk to other people on-line, and I enjoyed its benefits (not having to look people in the eye, having more time to properly formulate a response, etc), but these days I just feel as though something is missing when I'm posting on the message boards I'm a member of (especially the one I visit more frequently than WP). I actually started missing that I could look the other person in the eye.

I sometimes wish I had friends... I've colleagues now, but it's different. And my relatives and I seem to have grown apart.

So off-line interaction for me, please. As to which I find easier, off-line or on-line, I'd honestly have to say off-line nowadays. I don't have a real problem anymore interacting with strangers, store clerks, etc etc, while on-line interaction on forums has grown just a little less comfortable for me because I feel I've run out of things to say on the forums I visit, I'm not a good debater, and I spend too much time reading threads and then thinking of replies to be a consistent participant. And it just sometimes feels hollow.


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02 Aug 2009, 4:06 pm

I prefer online and e-mails to phones and face-to-face interaction.

When I write out my thoughts they tend to be more coherent. Trying to have conversations in person causes anxiety for me - don't do well with eye contact, loose my train of thought, and stammer horribly. I'm pretty much a mess until I feel safe and comfortable.



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03 Aug 2009, 5:36 am

jamieg wrote:
i have a easier time to chat with people on the internet than in person and wondering how many others are like this


I am.


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03 Aug 2009, 6:48 am

Much easier online. I have made friends online much easier than in real life.


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