Sudden absolute silence; nobody around: Feels like heaven!

Page 1 of 1 [ 16 posts ] 

kx250rider
Supporting Member
Supporting Member

User avatar

Joined: 15 May 2010
Age: 56
Gender: Male
Posts: 2,140
Location: Dallas, TX & Somis, CA

07 Jun 2010, 11:24 am

Just wondering if this is something which other Aspies might feel strongly about.... Growing up in Los Angeles, and always living someplace within an earshot of a highway, or business, or a railroad, I very seldom experience absolute silence. The first time was in 1975, when my mother took me to Yosemite. When we parked the car at the cabin, and shut the motor off, I had never heard (or not heard as it may be), absolute silence. I remember that as if it were this morning. It was one of the best feelings I had ever felt.

Yesterday, I took a 100-mile ride on my motorcycle, through the mountains in Ventura County, CA. I had to stop to go to the bathroom at a park, up above Ojai, and when I stopped the bike and shut the motor off, it was absolutely silent. Not even a bird chirping. I just sat there for a few minutes, hearing only the occasional tick-tick of the cooling metal in the motorcycle. I could have just stayed there all day. There was not another living soul around... Nobody. No dogs, no wind blowing, no birds. After I took care of nature, I flushed, and it sounded like thunder and a locomotive all in one. Then I was almost disheartened when I fired up the bike, and rode away. Silence was broken. I actually felt guilty for being the only noise for miles & miles around. If my ride were to shatter such a great feeling for others like me, I'd stop riding there.

Charles



CockneyRebel
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 17 Jul 2004
Age: 49
Gender: Male
Posts: 113,554
Location: Stalag 13

07 Jun 2010, 11:46 am

I cherish my moments of silence, as well. It can be quite noisy, living in the city.


_________________
Who wants to adopt a Sweet Pea?


lelia
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 11 Apr 2007
Age: 71
Gender: Female
Posts: 2,897
Location: Vancouver not BC, Washington not DC

07 Jun 2010, 12:23 pm

Yeah, I hate the sound of motorcycles when I am in a forest. But bicycles may not be an option. And I drive a car which is simply another sound.



KayCe
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker

User avatar

Joined: 5 Feb 2009
Age: 56
Gender: Female
Posts: 55

07 Jun 2010, 1:21 pm

I identify completely with this.

Silence can be an incredible experience, and transforming too.

Numinous.

:)



JetLag
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 7 Aug 2008
Age: 74
Gender: Male
Posts: 4,762
Location: California

07 Jun 2010, 1:49 pm

For me, silence is the best prescription on the market.


_________________
Stung by the splendor of a sudden thought. ~ Robert Browning


cyberscan
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 16 Apr 2008
Age: 56
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,296
Location: Near Panama, City Florida

07 Jun 2010, 2:01 pm

I love silence :-)


_________________
I am AUTISTIC - Always Unique, Totally Interesting, Straight Talking, Intelligently Conversational.
I am also the author of "Tech Tactics Money Saving Secrets" and "Tech Tactics Publishing and Production Secrets."


conan
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 13 Jul 2009
Age: 37
Gender: Male
Posts: 784

07 Jun 2010, 2:33 pm

i love it too. it is one of the great reasons to go to the countryside. it is an amazing feeling



TheSpecialKid
Velociraptor
Velociraptor

User avatar

Joined: 30 Aug 2008
Age: 33
Gender: Male
Posts: 432
Location: Denmark

07 Jun 2010, 2:59 pm

Silence is so great!, and even better, the feeling that noone is around you.



ooOoOoOAnaOoOoOoo
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 18 Jun 2008
Gender: Female
Posts: 12,265

07 Jun 2010, 3:24 pm

My favorite kind of silence is one experienced on a cold winter night, when the tempature is in the teens or single digits. I like taking walks and listening to how still and quiet everything is, and how the trains sound much closer than they ever do when it's warmer.



Kiley
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 26 Apr 2010
Age: 60
Gender: Female
Posts: 879

07 Jun 2010, 3:31 pm

Living in a house full of people with ADHD, AS, Dyslexia (why does he HAVE to be so loud with his word games?), Bi-Polar... Any silence I can get is a treasure.



Surreal
Velociraptor
Velociraptor

User avatar

Joined: 16 Mar 2010
Age: 57
Gender: Male
Posts: 424

07 Jun 2010, 3:41 pm

Silence is the best!

Escape from the constant distraction of others!

No need to worry about whether I am interacting properly with the rest of the world!

I can be me. :)



Skilpadde
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 7 Dec 2008
Age: 46
Gender: Female
Posts: 27,019

07 Jun 2010, 5:01 pm

Sigh... Silence is heavenly...


_________________
BOLTZ 17/3 2012 - 12/11 2020
Beautiful, sweet, gentle, playful, loyal
simply the best and one of a kind
love you and miss you, dear boy

Stop the wolf kills! https://www.thepetitionsite.com/takeact ... 3091429765


Who_Am_I
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 27 Aug 2005
Age: 40
Gender: Female
Posts: 12,632
Location: Australia

07 Jun 2010, 5:10 pm

Quote:
Sudden absolute silence; nobody around: Feels like heaven!


Why yes, yes it does.


_________________
Music Theory 101: Cadences.
Authentic cadence: V-I
Plagal cadence: IV-I
Deceptive cadence: V- ANYTHING BUT I ! !! !
Beethoven cadence: V-I-V-I-V-V-V-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I
-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I! I! I! I I I


richardbenson
Xfractor Card #351
Xfractor Card #351

User avatar

Joined: 30 Oct 2006
Gender: Male
Posts: 13,553
Location: Leave only a footprint behind

07 Jun 2010, 10:36 pm

oh i love this topic. im gonna dissapaer in a few years to the freezing lands of the north and set up my indestructible kingdom!


_________________
Winds of clarity. a universal understanding come and go, I've seen though the Darkness to understand the bounty of Light


Swordfish210
Deinonychus
Deinonychus

User avatar

Joined: 31 May 2010
Age: 33
Gender: Female
Posts: 321
Location: UK

08 Jun 2010, 3:48 am

conan wrote:
i love it too. it is one of the great reasons to go to the countryside. it is an amazing feeling


Silence is heaven.


_________________
"How often have I said to you that when you have eliminated the impossible, whatever remains, however improbable, must be the truth?"

Sherlock Holmes in The Sign Of Four (1890), ch. 6


ToughDiamond
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 15 Sep 2008
Age: 71
Gender: Male
Posts: 11,381

08 Jun 2010, 6:13 am

Yes I love silence. My son's just netted himself a detached house with double glazing, and it's a real treat to be there - background noise just doesn't exist. 8) It must be great to have that kind of environment all the time......imagine the clarity of thinking :D