Indeed, that's why I've sort of left AFF since I found this place. The people there are cool and all but I don't like their philosophy that cure is just plain bad. I can see where they're coming from but their views always seemed too extreme for me to be able to accept them. Particularly, some of their attitudes towards parents of people with AS seem way off to me, the way they mock them because they apparently make themselves out to be matyrs.
But about X-Men, I don't think it's that accurate an analogy. In X-Men, the mutants develop remarkable differences that distinguish them from others. I think with us it's more of a case that our traits have been part of humanity for a while, but now with the world getting smaller (due to technology, communications, etc) and as a result less diverse (more conformity), certain groups such as psychiatry are singling out populations now considered to be deviant.
I think it's important that people remember that AS is an arbitrarily defined diagnosis. It's more accurate to draw parallels between us and the European witch trials than us and the X-Men, because like us, 'witches' were just ordinary folk who at the time weren't socially acceptable.