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04 Oct 2016, 2:36 pm

title says it all
im expected to be NT


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04 Oct 2016, 2:39 pm

What happened that you feel this way?



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04 Oct 2016, 2:43 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
What happened that you feel this way?

bc
i have no friends
prob never date
and 3
im upset bout something


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04 Oct 2016, 2:45 pm

Did somebody insult you?



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04 Oct 2016, 2:49 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Did somebody insult you?

no


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04 Oct 2016, 3:07 pm

random1 wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
What happened that you feel this way?

bc
i have no friends
prob never date
and 3
im upset bout something


My opinion is you don't need friends or a woman to make your life better , they can definately help but don't always equate to better.


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04 Oct 2016, 3:12 pm

SaveFerris wrote:
random1 wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
What happened that you feel this way?

bc
i have no friends
prob never date
and 3
im upset bout something


My opinion is you don't need friends or a woman to make your life better , they can definately help but don't always equate to better.

today
we learned not to flap hands
or
do unexpected behavior
like rocking at work


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04 Oct 2016, 3:18 pm

random1 wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
random1 wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
What happened that you feel this way?

bc
i have no friends
prob never date
and 3
im upset bout something


My opinion is you don't need friends or a woman to make your life better , they can definately help but don't always equate to better.

today
we learned not to flap hands
or
do unexpected behavior
like rocking at work


Did they teach you how to stop doing it or why you should stop doing it


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04 Oct 2016, 3:22 pm

SaveFerris wrote:
random1 wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
random1 wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
What happened that you feel this way?

bc
i have no friends
prob never date
and 3
im upset bout something


My opinion is you don't need friends or a woman to make your life better , they can definately help but don't always equate to better.

today
we learned not to flap hands
or
do unexpected behavior
like rocking at work


Did they teach you how to stop doing it or why you should stop doing it


not really
thay said
pepole will have odd thoughts about u
or weird thoughts


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04 Oct 2016, 3:45 pm

random1 wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
random1 wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
random1 wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
What happened that you feel this way?

bc
i have no friends
prob never date
and 3
im upset bout something


My opinion is you don't need friends or a woman to make your life better , they can definately help but don't always equate to better.

today
we learned not to flap hands
or
do unexpected behavior
like rocking at work


Did they teach you how to stop doing it or why you should stop doing it


not really
thay said
pepole will have odd thoughts about u
or weird thoughts


Yes unfortunately there are people who will have odd thoughts if they don't understand why you stim.


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04 Oct 2016, 4:00 pm

random1 wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
random1 wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
What happened that you feel this way?

bc
i have no friends
prob never date
and 3
im upset bout something


My opinion is you don't need friends or a woman to make your life better , they can definately help but don't always equate to better.

today
we learned not to flap hands
or
do unexpected behavior
like rocking at work


Are you in some sort of Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA) program?


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04 Oct 2016, 4:57 pm

ASPartOfMe wrote:
random1 wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
random1 wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
What happened that you feel this way?

bc
i have no friends
prob never date
and 3
im upset bout something


My opinion is you don't need friends or a woman to make your life better , they can definately help but don't always equate to better.

today
we learned not to flap hands
or
do unexpected behavior
like rocking at work


Are you in some sort of Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA) program?


no


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04 Oct 2016, 11:14 pm

Are you making fun of us? Just asking.


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05 Oct 2016, 2:18 am

random1 wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
random1 wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
random1 wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
What happened that you feel this way?

bc
i have no friends
prob never date
and 3
im upset bout something


My opinion is you don't need friends or a woman to make your life better , they can definately help but don't always equate to better.

today
we learned not to flap hands
or
do unexpected behavior
like rocking at work


Did they teach you how to stop doing it or why you should stop doing it


not really
thay said
pepole will have odd thoughts about u
or weird thoughts


Yeah so what? People who get lots of piercings and tattoos deal with that as well. Being told to not be yourself because people will have odd or weird thoughts about you is discriminatory.

"Oh my what will the neighbours think?"
It doesn't matter what they think.



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05 Oct 2016, 3:20 am

EzraS wrote:
Yeah so what? People who get lots of piercings and tattoos deal with that as well. Being told to not be yourself because people will have odd or weird thoughts about you is discriminatory.

"Oh my what will the neighbours think?"
It doesn't matter what they think.


You're forgetting something. People "choose" to have tattoos and piercings and are aware of the social consequences of that choice. People "don't choose" to have autism. I sure as the hell didn't go down to an autism parlor to get autism.



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05 Oct 2016, 3:57 am

LupaLuna wrote:
EzraS wrote:
Yeah so what? People who get lots of piercings and tattoos deal with that as well. Being told to not be yourself because people will have odd or weird thoughts about you is discriminatory.

"Oh my what will the neighbours think?"
It doesn't matter what they think.


You're forgetting something. People "choose" to have tattoos and piercings and are aware of the social consequences of that choice. People "don't choose" to have autism. I sure as the hell didn't go down to an autism parlor to get autism.


True but I figure I can choose to whether or not to care about what people, namely strangers, think about me. I'm learning not to care.