They don't replay me.

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I send them message and they answered me yesterday:
http://mssa.org.mk/en/index.php
President invite me to come, told me that have never met aspie in his life, he wrote book about asparger syndrome. Also, he told me that have never was recognized person with asparger in my country and there is not organization for aspargers. He wondered how I'm 39 and no one realized that i'm aspie. And my replay probably was mistake, i wrote him lot of about me, after this he didn't replay me. I'm confused, i have feeling that he scary of one aspie or he thinks that i lay, and he will never replay me. What should i do? Forget to connect with this organization, no help for me, wait for replay or write him again and ask him?!?!

sorry, friend- the only thing i could suggest would be to write them again, and register with the website if you haven't already done that, as that would put you in their email loop at least. good luck.
bruce

I wrote him again, I have registered in site, but i had feelings how he so not treat me like normal person, and his answers were like nervous,and very strange was beside i told him that I'm from another city, i can come and lost my day, maybe he will accept me, maybe he will not have time, what is very strange. I think.. that i wrote him again, i have made big mistake.

He finally answered me, i going to meet him tomorrow, beside he said that with my write him again, after he didn't replay me how i insist meet him?! Also he wondered why i used nickname, no my real name, all that make me feel bad feeling for him, i think our meeting going to be unfriendly, I'm not an optimist that he going to help me, anyway i decided, i going to meet him, let he say his opinion if i have asperger or i haven't.

i hope you find what you're looking for, i hope the man [or personage] you meet is satisfactory to your needs. i prayed for you.

I think that all you can do is go in there with an open mind and see what he says, but if he doesn't know about Asperger's Syndrome he might not be helpful. Just keep your expectations open so you are not too disappointed if he doesn't understand. Good luck!

Thank you. Yes, I just beck, he have asked me many question and said that i have asperger and wrote me medicaments, lot of vitamins.
He also remind me where in contact i make mistake, which have never someone told me.

Thank you bee33. He works with people with autism and read lot of for asperger, but first in his life have met aspie.

I'm glad it went well for you! It sounds like he understood.

I was to bay vitamins which gave me doctor who diagnosed me asperger.. Pharmacist was surprised, why to big amounts. I had in plan to hide, but nothing, and i told them about my asperger. Two women pharmacist weren't to surprise, they were nice, but avoided me to look in eyes, since man was nervous, probably they don't know that people with asperger can open look in eyes, but he i think had prejudices, that don't like people with autism, since for asperger he have never heard, I think that even was ready report to police, I feel bad in my stomach. I live in conservative town where people to not accept different people and pharmacist man gave me with his behavior negative energy. I scary

Nikoa, can you move to a larger city with more open-minded people? unfortunately, small town=provincialism [fear of the different], most of the time.

It is complicate. I depend of my husband and i have 2 kids, also i have old parents, my husband old father who live in my town. I must stay in my town. Have idea to join for volunteering in social organization, But how is near always with me i have idea and day by day past, and that stay idea only. Who knows, maybe vitamins going to help me.

I hate to break it to you, but vitamins won't help you with ASD...

I going to try, let we see, doctor said i should drink 4 months, if i don't see difference i will stop. What is your opinion, what can help me, to socialize, find job and have right behavior with my sons?..Because they suffer, to have asperger mother isn't easy.

I drunk vitamins in the morning and I feel good, i don't need coffee and i don't have depression.

Perhaps you shouldn't have told the pharmacist you have Asperger's.

Provincialism and intolerance characterizes the whole Eastern-Europe. For example, I wouldn't tell my colleagues and other than my closest friends and relatives that I have something to do with ASD.