I know some social rules should apply, otherwise everyone would end up getting upset all the time, so I understand why and how to avoid saying non-offensive comments. But what I mean is, I wish you could say things at any time without being considered ''weird'' or ''freaky''.
It's like when I was on the bus yesterday, 2 girls got on together chatting, and they sat down, one behind the other, and when the bus got full an elderly ladie got on and went to sit next to one of the girls, but they kind of looked up at her funny and the girl wouldn't move her bags what were on the other seat, so the elderly ladie had to hunt for a seat further at the back where she didn't really want to sit. And I felt like leaning over and saying, ''why don't you 2 girls just sit together, then you 2 could talk better and wouldn't have no-one else next to you?'' But I knew better than to do that because they would just look at me dubiously or something. But I wish you could just do these things. I wish you could just ask them that and they would just say, ''oh yeah, good idea, cheers, mate'', and carry on talking and let the elderly ladie sit.
Wouldn't life be swell if communicating was that easy and that everybody helped one another without anybody teasing or freaking out?
It's as if communicating and socialising is like those game things where you have a metal loop thing what you move along a metal wire thing and if the metal wire touches the loop thing it buzzes loud. That's how communicating and socialising means to me, where you have to be so careful with what you do and say and if you accidentally do or saying anything wrong, you get a ''loud buzz'' which could mean teasing, bullying, criticising, irritation, or even a fall out.
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