are kids with aspergers the perfect target for peadophiles?

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NaomiDB
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29 Dec 2011, 8:55 am

as I child I was insecure I believed lies, I was easily manipulated and didn't know how to tell people no, I didn't tell anyone anything I was ashamed of and would be a lot less likely to talk about something like that, I was pretty but had no idea I was.
I had no way of judging If a person was someone to avoid, It resulted in me repeatedly getting into less than pleasant situations with less than pleasant people more than once.
were you this way or is it just me?
do you think children with aspergers are the perfect victims?



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29 Dec 2011, 9:13 am

"I had no way of judging If a person was someone to avoid, It resulted in me repeatedly getting into less than pleasant situations with less than pleasant people more than once."

This is called having adventures and it's the best way to learn.



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29 Dec 2011, 9:17 am

fraac wrote:
"I had no way of judging If a person was someone to avoid, It resulted in me repeatedly getting into less than pleasant situations with less than pleasant people more than once."

This is called having adventures and it's the best way to learn.

lol no really no.
I mean, I got sexually assaulted.
not an adventure.



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29 Dec 2011, 10:40 am

Ahahahaha @ post misunderstanding.


I would say they sound perfect for pedophiles. Sorry that happened to you. :(



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29 Dec 2011, 10:43 am

NaomiDB wrote:
Are kids with aspergers the perfect target for peadophiles?

Perhaps ... but that makes peadophiles the perfect targets for anyone with good aim.



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29 Dec 2011, 10:59 am

Naomi, yes. I don't know about the "perfect" target, but yes I think ASD kids would be vulnerable. I know I was since as a child I obeyed adults and had no clue when someone was up to no good. Kids who can't talk about stuff, oh yeah. Target.


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29 Dec 2011, 11:17 am

Spazzergasm wrote:
Ahahahaha @ post misunderstanding.


I would have thought peadophiles would be more interested in these:

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I would say they sound perfect for pedophiles.


Or paedophiles.



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29 Dec 2011, 11:25 am

Tequila wrote:
Spazzergasm wrote:
Ahahahaha @ post misunderstanding.


I would have thought peadophiles would be more interested in these:

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I would say they sound perfect for pedophiles.


Or paedophiles.

ooh haha sorry about the spelling.



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29 Dec 2011, 11:30 am

Ain't any children a perfect target for paedophiles?

Just this week I've heard a NEUROTYPICAL teenage girl has just been raped by a paedophile. Whoa, how did that happen if she was neurotypical???????????????????????????????????? 8O 8O 8O 8O :roll:


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29 Dec 2011, 11:42 am

Since flippin' when is NT a magical shield against all things evil? It isn't. I still want someone to go find one of these NT normal people for me. I don't think they exist.


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29 Dec 2011, 11:44 am

SylviaLynn wrote:
Since flippin' when is NT a magical shield against all things evil? It isn't. I still want someone to go find one of these NT normal people for me. I don't think they exist.


Word.



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29 Dec 2011, 11:49 am

Honest to God. That whole Micheal Jackson thing made me so mad! How did he get away with all that? They found a life size boy scout doll in his room! If I had a life size Vin Deisel doll you would think I was doing something "dirty" with it. You would probably be right.

My son was 12 at the time that all came out the first time. He watched it all on tv. He said "Mama, lets pretend I'm sick and take me there. Let that guy try anything, I'll kick his *** and we can get a lot of money."

I said "Nope, I hate him since he became a white woman. Although Thriller was the best 80s song EVER!"

I hate pedophiles. MY BIL in prison says they make their lives HELL in there! He told me "Ya'll want to kill them, but don't. Send them here. We give them a fate worse than death!" I guess they bully them. That kind of bullying is FINE by me! He is doing LWP, so he has nothing to lose. Although they did move him to the prison right up the road from me! Now we get to go visit him twice a month!

They have stopped allowing people bringing home cooked food to them in the visiting room, but this prison is in town, and al the guards are from town, and I knew many of them when they were little, and many of them have thrown up in my oldest son's room, so they bring my BIL in the chaplain's office and I bring enough food for everybody.


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29 Dec 2011, 11:51 am

NaomiDB wrote:
as I child I was insecure I believed lies, I was easily manipulated and didn't know how to tell people no, I didn't tell anyone anything I was ashamed of and would be a lot less likely to talk about something like that, I was pretty but had no idea I was.
I had no way of judging If a person was someone to avoid, It resulted in me repeatedly getting into less than pleasant situations with less than pleasant people more than once.
were you this way or is it just me?
do you think children with aspergers are the perfect victims?


People with developmental disabilities experience sexual assault at all ages at a much higher rate than neurotypicals, all else being equal.

I don't want to quote all of this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_abu ... sabilities

but it has a lot of statistics. I don't know what the odds are for Asperger's Syndrome specifically, but even if it is lower than the overall number for all DDs, it is still likely much higher than what NTs experience.



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29 Dec 2011, 11:56 am

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I hate pedophiles.


Don't you mean you hate child molesters? Not all paedophiles are child molesters and neither are all child molesters paedophiles. How would you feel having a toxic sexuality you can't fix and that you can't tell anyone about for your own safety, having to live life a complete lie, almost all your harmless outlets that might help you to deal with or relieve or "get rid" of your obsession removed from you by legal means?

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MY BIL in prison says they make their lives HELL in there! He told me "Ya'll want to kill them, but don't. Send them here. We give them a fate worse than death!" I guess they bully them. That kind of bullying is FINE by me! He is doing LWP, so he has nothing to lose. Although they did move him to the prison right up the road from me! Now we get to go visit him twice a month!

They have stopped allowing people bringing home cooked food to them in the visiting room, but this prison is in town, and al the guards are from town, and I knew many of them when they were little, and many of them have thrown up in my oldest son's room, so they bring my BIL in the chaplain's office and I bring enough food for everybody.


Charming family you must have right there.



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29 Dec 2011, 11:57 am

OliveOilMom wrote:
I hate pedophiles. MY BIL in prison says they make their lives HELL in there! He told me "Ya'll want to kill them, but don't. Send them here. We give them a fate worse than death!" I guess they bully them. That kind of bullying is FINE by me! He is doing LWP, so he has nothing to lose. Although they did move him to the prison right up the road from me! Now we get to go visit him twice a month!


If I was in prison I'd probably end up killing people and becoming top dog to protect paedophiles. I don't care either way, but I hate bullies.



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29 Dec 2011, 4:56 pm

SylviaLynn wrote:
Since flippin' when is NT a magical shield against all things evil? It isn't. I still want someone to go find one of these NT normal people for me. I don't think they exist.


Agreed. Every week I hear of a murder or a rape or a molestation, and Autism is never mentioned.


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