Hmm I don't believe I am better than NTs, or 100 percent different. To me (and this is only speaking from my own personal point of view) I feel like NTs are butterflies and I am a moth; not that different really but there are a few differences that can be notified when both behaviours are observed. Let's say there are lots of different breeds and colours of butterflies and I'm a moth surrounded by them, I have a lot in common with them; I can flutter my wings and fly just as effectively as the butterflies can, and I can even be passed off as a butterfly if I am mingled in with them all, and I'm no better or worse than the butterflies, I can also connect to butterflies, but the only differences are I am a moth and I fly more at night, and I eat clothes and carpet.
That explains that I, as an Aspie, am no better or worse than NTs (well I think I'm worse than other people but that's just my low self-esteem and irrational thinking), and at the end of the day I'm a human just like them, and it's not like ''you meet one NT you met them all'' because that's not true, but my differences to the general population are I get more flustered or anxious more easily over small things what others wouldn't so much, and I have some social difficulties that hold me back, and I have obsessive thinking to a higher degree than the general population (with interests and anxieties), and I may be unable to handle loud noises.
That's the way I look at it. Makes me feel better when I imagine myself as a moth among butterflies.
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