i was long considered to have dissociative disorder, which is turning out to be sensory issues. benzopiazepines helped a lot. for me, they seem to have a way of rounding out the sharpness of sounds and sensations. benzos put a blanket on the world and this has been helpful for me.
it is not meant to be used in this way, but it works for me. that said, it does make me more 'dull' and with my already flat affect, im sort of super dull. i find that if i am on a low dose, and take it as needed, it is a decent drug.
also, i am on adderall for ADD, which i suspect is actually related to AS shutdowns. this medication seems to enhance my sensitivity to stimuli, so it makes the sensory issues worse. however, this has only led to one meltdown for me since i have been on it for a couple of months. mainly, it gives me routine energy (meaning energy for no apparent reason) and actually increases my dopamine, which has assisted me in having 'emotions,' which we before hard to have for me.
ive kept the doses of both low because (and i have heard others aspies mention the same) i seem to experience side effects more than most people, which could be related simply to the way we process sensations differently.
my medication could change or be discontinued as i transition into treatment with an AS focus.
the best advice i can give though, if you have the money, is to meet with your psychiatrist once a week and be firm on that. if you are sensitive to meds as most of us seem to be, youll need a continual dialogue with your psych. a partial inpatient program for mental health might also not be a bad idea if you want to hit the ground running. then you can see the psych everyday.
of course, i didnt check your profile to see if you're from back-woods asia, so some of this advice my not apply.