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Marky9
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09 Dec 2013, 5:56 pm

I find NT's challenging enough when sober.

When drunk, their personality and ways of interacting change. I find I can never predict how much and in what way. It all just becomes a bit too much for me. Add to that the odd case where some people can experience profound personality shifts when drunk, and I just prefer to have nothing to do with them.


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09 Dec 2013, 6:14 pm

My father had profound personality shifts when he got drunk. Really. You'd want to be miles away from him. He was a violent prick.



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09 Dec 2013, 6:31 pm

He sounds like a creep to me. He invaded your personal space, he was far too familiar, he was pushy, he wanted your address, he followed you home, he tried to invite a stranger from the store to come visit him. That's not normal in any way.

The fact that he's drunk doesn't help.

Him talking about female friends he visits is also icky.

He may not be a threat but I would sure keep an eye on someone like that and avoid them.

It could be wise to write a journal keeping track of any contact you have with him. If anything happens you have a log to show his behavior.

If you know anyone well enough to ask about him you could do that.

I would find it very icky.


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09 Dec 2013, 7:33 pm

mother died of cirrhosis
father has korsakoff's
and my brothers a giant alchy
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14 Dec 2013, 6:50 am

Thank you really much for all of your replies. He hasn't contacted me since then so I don't feel as worried anymore.
But thank you to everyone.
(: