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26 Dec 2013, 12:34 am

I have been wondering about this,my asperger's is officially diagnosed,my question is does Japan suit people who have aspergers?



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26 Dec 2013, 1:11 am

I expect it would suit quite a few, but only based on the fact it appeals to me personally and there's a big gaming/nerd community and I associate it with stuff like Pokemon. I guess I don't really know.



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26 Dec 2013, 1:18 am

I suspect that the cities, especially Tokyo, would be rather overwhelming.

Out in the countryside might be kind of nice, though.



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26 Dec 2013, 1:21 am

I would say: yes.

A nice thing about being a westerner in Japan is that one is always perceived as an outsider - a gaijin. This beats hell out of being perceived as an outsider in NT society.

And Japan has linguistic and social constructs that can be learnt, which is a further advantage.

This spoken from a mere 6 weeks in Tokyo 25 yrs ago, and i have no idea how Japan treats their own aspies...



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26 Dec 2013, 1:28 am

I'm a little too old to be thinking about relocating, still, the prospect that Japan may be more conducive to the mental health of aspies is a welcome development.



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26 Dec 2013, 1:31 am

I for one could probably survive Tokyo. I like small spaces, bleeding edge gadgets and fast cars.

You can't get better obsessions than these :D


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26 Dec 2013, 2:13 am

I wouldn't be able to deal with the population density or the excess of seafood.
I not only dislike eating seafood, I can't stand the smell either.
I find the smell of seafood as repulsive as some find the smell of cigarettes.


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26 Dec 2013, 2:21 am

I suspect this would also apply for us Asperger's sufferers as well in Japan:

http://inclusion-international.org/act- ... -in-japan/



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26 Dec 2013, 4:03 am

While I'd love to visit Japan I don't think I could handle public transportation there. They literally pack people on to the trains, you are pressed up against strangers on every side. The very thought terrifies me. I am one of the aspies that can't be touched by strangers.



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26 Dec 2013, 4:13 am

Halfmadgenius wrote:
While I'd love to visit Japan I don't think I could handle public transportation there. They literally pack people on to the trains, you are pressed up against strangers on every side. The very thought terrifies me. I am one of the aspies that can't be touched by strangers.


Ever been to Shinjuku Station in Rush Hour,its fun



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26 Dec 2013, 4:28 am

doofy wrote:
I would say: yes.

A nice thing about being a westerner in Japan is that one is always perceived as an outsider - a gaijin. This beats hell out of being perceived as an outsider in NT society.

And Japan has linguistic and social constructs that can be learnt, which is a further advantage.

This spoken from a mere 6 weeks in Tokyo 25 yrs ago, and i have no idea how Japan treats their own aspies...


This sounds fairly promising, but it also brings to mind the question for autistics who might consider settling down in Japan permanently: how they would deal with the hierarchic structures and the subtleties of non-verbal communication in Japan?

I know it's not the same thing, but I'm Eurasian having grown up with the Asian side of my family in which I function fine and I'm familiar with the general code... but I've been among some Asian crowds where the whole 'be subtle and indirect' thing was valued so highly that I was like a bull in a porcelain store.

I bring up the hierarchy because many WP members (me included) have expressed that they have issues with authority, even when living in Western countries.


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26 Dec 2013, 5:04 am

I have severe issues with authority figures. I don't despise them. I do, however, try my best to avoid them as much as possible.

I also couldn't do the congested, pack 'em all in, type of commute. I'm claustrophobic and I always need to have some escape route around me.

I didn't act up while I was in the psych hospital because the thought of being straight-jacketed repelled me.



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26 Dec 2013, 5:38 am

Always looks too busy when I see pictures/videos of it. Doubt there's much in the way of owning lots of rural land either (bigger property = people are further away).



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26 Dec 2013, 8:26 am

Mr_Alex wrote:
... does Japan suit people who have aspergers?

Not usually, unless the Aspie has done something really bad.


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26 Dec 2013, 10:35 am

Based on what I know I doubt it, but I suppose it would depend on the Aspie and what they're expecting to find. Just going there for video games, anime, etc, or to get away seems like a bad idea, because any social difficulties are probably only going to be magnified.

East Asian cultures tend to be less direct in speech than the US and rely more on interpretation and nonverbal communication. Japan also has a collectivist culture, which is the opposite of places like the US, and there are things which are innocent elsewhere but rude in Japan.



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26 Dec 2013, 10:36 am

Dillogic wrote:
Always looks too busy when I see pictures/videos of it. Doubt there's much in the way of owning lots of rural land either (bigger property = people are further away).

Japan has a upside,Aspergers sufferers are also pretty much protected