Hi All,
I don't know about you all but I'm SO HAPPY that that horrible Christmas & New Year period is OVER. Routine was distrupted, just like it is EVERY year when services stop, and groups & clubs 'grind to a halt'.
Thankfully, now they are starting again!! !! !! HOORAY!! !! !!
THE TRAIN IS STARTING AGAIN.... "Choo Choo!! !!"
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fQ9MgqXYpY4[/youtube]
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We, the people on the Autistic Spectrum have a choice.
We can either try to "fit in" with the rest of society, or we can be so egocentric that we can't be bothered.
I choose the actor. I observe NT's. I listen to their socializing. I practice it, so in social situations I can just emulate/mimic what is expected.
It isn't natural for me, but it enables me to "fit in".
It is VERY tiring and draining, but at least we can appear like them even though it is an act. Like being on the stage.
They can't see it is emulation, and so we are accepted.