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05 Apr 2014, 10:32 am

I do. I love to just lie in bed and brood and ruminate and loathe myself. It is rewarding in a way.


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05 Apr 2014, 11:21 am

Hmmm, no, not like that.

I do have moments where I happily wallow in self-pity but I would call them constructive rather than rewarding.



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05 Apr 2014, 11:30 am

Short term reward, sure. That's how it works and that's why people do it?



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05 Apr 2014, 7:29 pm

I don't know about self loathing but i often feel self pity and then i start to dislike myself because of it as by now i should have accepted who i am, what my weaknesses and failings are and why they are. Sometimes emotion overtakes logic though.