Are you annoying??

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People find me annoying because I'm noisy and childish and stupid
Do people find you annoying?? And if so why??

Sometimes, but in that case the feeling is often mutual.

I burst out with a comment in between some ones conversation.

I know that some people - not everybody - but certainly enough find me annoying partly because I can inadvertently come off as a "know it all" and my tone can sound a bit lecturing and even sometimes self-righteous. I think I have some how managed to be a bit that way all my life even when I am trying not to.

Nope, unless being very introverted and barely talking to anyone is considered annoying.

People say I'm annoying for being honest, and talking a lot/being a teacher of astronomy with every people I meet.

Yeah, a lot of people find me annoying for a number of different reasons. A good amount of the time though I'm trying to be annoying since I find the people I'm dealing with to be that way. Seems fair to me.

I tend to repeat the same topic again and again, or repeat the same sentence right after saying it during the story telling. Sometimes when I got too exited or anxious I talk too much or act like knowing it all. And I may continue my "lecture" even after people got annoyed because I didn't pick up the clue they were showing me, unless they cut me off right away.

I'm sure I have a tendency to be annoying...However, It's one of those things I can't pick up on and the people down here in general just tolerate it without mentioning that I am getting annoying.

I kinda wish I was back in New Jersey where if I were starting to get annoying they would tell me right out Hey cut the sh!t your starting to get on my nerves at least it's in black in white that I am doing something that is annoying to the other person.

I know I am definitely considered annoying. Sometimes I'm aware that others around me are getting annoyed by me, but I still cannot manage to find the "stop button".

In elementary (primary) schools.

I always figured I have ADHD, and that my annoying personality is not Asperger's. The reason I say this is because out of all the Aspies and Autistics I have met, I seem to have the least friends, and I could tell that the hidden reasons as to why I was rejected by my peers so much was because I was too annoying, as in a hyper sort of way. But I am shy at the same time.

There was about two or three girls at my school who I'm very sure was on the spectrum. But I always find it hard to tell whether a girl has Asperger's or not, but looking back, I am pretty positive that they were. But they weren't hyper at all, they were more serious, and they seemed to have got more accepted by those that rejected me, which always left me feeling confused and hurt, even to this day. But there was another girl who had ADHD and was also very socially awkward, and she got horribly rejected too. She tried to clutch on to a group of friends but they didn't really want her there. She had an annoying personality like me, but was diagnosed with ADHD. I wish I had been more friendly with her. She did try to be friends with me, but she was into stuff I wasn't, and vice versa.

So maybe I have an ADHD type of Asperger's. I'm only saying from personal experience, I am not laying down a fact.

Depends on who you ask.

It's hard to say but the real life Aspies I have met are incredibly annoying and have no concept of personal boundaries. Maybe I am just having bad luck though.

Sometimes, because I might way overanalize things and take 10 minutes talking about something that could maybe be summed up in 2 minutes, Its annoying even to me if I lose things because then I b*tch a lot trying to look for it which is annoying I try not to but it frustrates me to no end. There are some other things, though I imagine everyone is annoying sometimes.

I ask too many questions and don't get things most people would get and people don't like to explain everything to me most people would get on their own. I have gotten "never mind" so many times and people don't like to repeat themselves when they say something to me but didn't catch my attention first before speaking so I was not able to shift my focus onto them and process their words. When I sense someone is getting annoyed with me, I leave them alone or stop trying to get it.