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20 Nov 2014, 4:11 pm

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I can drink some alcohol, but I have to be careful not to go past the point of no return. I have a pretty good sixth sense compared to when I was a teenager, and very very rarely get ill from it any more. My family, annoyingly enough, can knock back bottles of wine like there's no tomorrow, but I just can't drink that much.

Good luck with the ADHD diagnosis. I have the same issue with lack of focus; if somebody starts telling a lengthy anecdote, I zone out. I just get bored. Are you in the UK? I don't really want to add another diagnosis to my long list of diagnoses, but I might ask my GP if he can prescribe ritalin.... :-/


Thanks, yeah I'm from the UK. Your GP will probably not prescribe you ritalin without an ADHD diagnosis from a specialist. It actually isn't even licensed in the UK for treating ADHD in adults, but they can still prescribe it if you give them enough reasons to. Pisses me off how far behind the NHS is with MH.



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20 Nov 2014, 4:16 pm

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Thanks, yeah I'm from the UK. Your GP will probably not prescribe you ritalin without an ADHD diagnosis from a specialist. It actually isn't even licensed in the UK for treating ADHD in adults, but they can still prescribe it if you give them enough reasons to. Pisses me off how far behind the NHS is with MH.


I'm in the uk and am prescribed meds for adhd.


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20 Nov 2014, 4:16 pm

small talk is horrible

e.g. how was your day? How are you?

It feels like the other person is just looking to be entertained or something



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20 Nov 2014, 4:22 pm

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interesting myself. But I cannot help being bored out of my mind with most people's conversations. If I can drink, then alcohol makes it bearable and even enjoyable if I'm lucky. Otherwise, after a while I have to do something else - go for a walk, go on somebody's iPad etc. Luckily my family are used to me, so they don't care if I sit there stuck in a screen while they're all talking.
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Sounds like me.


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20 Nov 2014, 4:24 pm

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I'm not actually in work. I'm talking about doctors, nurses, mental health professionals... Pretty much the only people I ever see outside of my family :-/

Logically, I know I shouldn't take it personally. I don't act on my feelings; I don't think anyone dealing with me would know about them if I had feelings for them. I just hate my desperate reaction afterwards, when I'm alone. That's why I'm so glad I didn't fall to pieces after the last chat. (Don't want to say who it was with, even though the chances of them seeing this post, recognising me and recognising themselves is probably zero.) It was a pleasant surprise to be left with mostly positive memories afterwards rather than crying over the fact I won't see them again, or only 1 or 2 more times if I do.


I've recently been reassigned to a different MH team and the first time I've had a female support worker. I started to quite fancy her the first few weeks then like last week I was a bit off with her because I caught her lying about being on holiday when she wasn't when we were meant to have an appointment. Anyway she is a nice person I just got confused why she lied. I saw her today and we had a much better day out.



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20 Nov 2014, 4:28 pm

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Thanks, yeah I'm from the UK. Your GP will probably not prescribe you ritalin without an ADHD diagnosis from a specialist. It actually isn't even licensed in the UK for treating ADHD in adults, but they can still prescribe it if you give them enough reasons to. Pisses me off how far behind the NHS is with MH.


I'm in the uk and am prescribed meds for adhd.


Really, how do they help you and what meds have you tried?



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20 Nov 2014, 4:40 pm

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Thanks, yeah I'm from the UK. Your GP will probably not prescribe you ritalin without an ADHD diagnosis from a specialist. It actually isn't even licensed in the UK for treating ADHD in adults, but they can still prescribe it if you give them enough reasons to. Pisses me off how far behind the NHS is with MH.


I do have a pretty open-minded GP when it comes to prescribing meds: thinks he just likes prescribing stuff, tbh. But yeah, Ritalin may be a step too far even for him... >_<.

To be honest, I'd just like to do a test trial. I'd like to do a part-time course once I've left home and am settled in my own flat, but at the moment I'm not sure I could concentrate for long enough to complete the assignments.

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I've recently been reassigned to a different MH team and the first time I've had a female support worker. I started to quite fancy her the first few weeks then like last week I was a bit off with her because I caught her lying about being on holiday when she wasn't when we were meant to have an appointment. Anyway she is a nice person I just got confused why she lied. I saw her today and we had a much better day out.


Did you ask her why she lied? I've had people cancel appointments on me before, but I've never caught anyone out lying. I don't think I would know about it even if they did lie. Mind, my mum tells white lies constantly; she cancelled an appointment for me on Monday. I would've told the truth as to why I couldn't make it, but she made up some pointless lie about me having an urgent hospital appointment.



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20 Nov 2014, 4:46 pm

I use Equasym xl 40mg and I used to have 10mg Ritalin as well but I don't have the Ritalin anymore.

The equasym helps me focus throughout the day because it's a modified release stimulant. But the main thing for me is, it helps me function as an adult.

When I don't take it everything goes west.

I've been taking it for a number of years now.

I see an adhd specialist psychiatrist twice a year and it's him who prescribes it for me.


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20 Nov 2014, 4:57 pm

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gaz34 wrote:
Thanks, yeah I'm from the UK. Your GP will probably not prescribe you ritalin without an ADHD diagnosis from a specialist. It actually isn't even licensed in the UK for treating ADHD in adults, but they can still prescribe it if you give them enough reasons to. Pisses me off how far behind the NHS is with MH.


I do have a pretty open-minded GP when it comes to prescribing meds: thinks he just likes prescribing stuff, tbh. But yeah, Ritalin may be a step too far even for him... >_<.

To be honest, I'd just like to do a test trial. I'd like to do a part-time course once I've left home and am settled in my own flat, but at the moment I'm not sure I could concentrate for long enough to complete the assignments.

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I've recently been reassigned to a different MH team and the first time I've had a female support worker. I started to quite fancy her the first few weeks then like last week I was a bit off with her because I caught her lying about being on holiday when she wasn't when we were meant to have an appointment. Anyway she is a nice person I just got confused why she lied. I saw her today and we had a much better day out.


Did you ask her why she lied? I've had people cancel appointments on me before, but I've never caught anyone out lying. I don't think I would know about it even if they did lie. Mind, my mum tells white lies constantly; she cancelled an appointment for me on Monday. I would've told the truth as to why I couldn't make it, but she made up some pointless lie about me having an urgent hospital appointment.


No, I didn't bother asking her.



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20 Nov 2014, 4:59 pm

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I use Equasym xl 40mg and I used to have 10mg Ritalin as well but I don't have the Ritalin anymore.

The equasym helps me focus throughout the day because it's a modified release stimulant. But the main thing for me is, it helps me function as an adult.

When I don't take it everything goes west.

I've been taking it for a number of years now.

I see an adhd specialist psychiatrist twice a year and it's him who prescribes it for me.


Nice 8)



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20 Nov 2014, 5:02 pm

Where you diagnosed with ADHD as an adult babybird?



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20 Nov 2014, 5:06 pm

I got diagnose about ten years ago, at the same time as I got diagnosed with aspergers.

I have got a history of behavioural problems that go back to childhood.


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20 Nov 2014, 5:15 pm

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I got diagnose about ten years ago, at the same time as I got diagnosed with aspergers.

I have got a history of behavioural problems that go back to childhood.


Thanks babybird. Yeah, looking forward to see what they have to offer. Would be nice to have some thingy release meds so I don't feel any "come down" effects. 8O



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20 Nov 2014, 7:55 pm

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It is the curse of being heavily introverted that you really dislike small talk and other superficial things. Thus, we think very rationally and we want to obtain intellectual bonds rather then the skin deep emotional bonds. However, this cause us a problem since most people desire emotional bond first before the intellectual bond; therefore, we tend to be more isolated since we can't stand dealing with the pettiness of the superficial world.


WELL SAID!! !! !



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20 Nov 2014, 8:39 pm

Orangez wrote:
It is the curse of being heavily introverted that you really dislike small talk and other superficial things. Thus, we think very rationally and we want to obtain intellectual bonds rather then the skin deep emotional bonds. However, this cause us a problem since most people desire emotional bond first before the intellectual bond; therefore, we tend to be more isolated since we can't stand dealing with the pettiness of the superficial world.


I don't particular like either bond. The two seem to negate one another.



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20 Nov 2014, 11:14 pm

I think Sartre's 'Hell is other people' (or whichever translation you prefer) should be rewritten as 'Hell is the wrong kind of people'.

People are the solution - and the problem.

Being bullied at school is due to other people. However, getting water through my taps and being able to turn the lights on is due to other people. As is using the internet via a laptop to communicate on a forum such as this.

To answer the question 'do you get bored around people?' - the answer is yes, dependent on the person, environment, subject of conversation etc etc - there are lots of variables that make, for me, giving an answer such as 'yes' or 'no' difficult.

In general though, yes: i'd rather be on my own than in company, one of the reasons being a tendency to easily become bored.