EarthCalling wrote:
Basically, they said that there is some contesting if there is a difference, but as far as diagnosing goes, NVLD presents without the specific interests or special abilities that Asperger's / Autistic children possess.
http://www.nldline.com/bonny_forrest_asvsnld.htm
I think people with NVLD (or PDD-NOS, since NVLD is not a DSM-IV diagnosis) are more socially aware. They make any attempt to think about what others are thinking about them. The person with AS doesn't start thinking about that until much later in life, if ever. It is not a natural thing to do.
If you haven't read any of Uta Frith's books, I would suggest them. She talks about "theory of mind" and mental states of others as being the core deficit of autism.
It is all a spectrum.
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