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steve30
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05 Jul 2015, 8:00 pm

I love nice relaxing cuddles :).

Unfortunately I seldom have anyone to cuddle with :(.



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05 Jul 2015, 8:30 pm

I like cuddling, but only with my husband. Cuddling is very intimate for me. I do not enjoy hugs for greetings or departures. I don't enjoy prolonged physical touch outside of being flirtatious or sexual intimacy. Being leaned on, hung on or held is very uncomfortable for me. Only my husband can do this without me feeling awkward. Each morning we make time to spoon before work. It's the best part of the day.


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kamiyu910
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05 Jul 2015, 9:43 pm

Very very rarely and only with my husband and occasionally with my kids if they so choose to want to cuddle themselves.


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tayblast
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06 Jul 2015, 3:39 am

I don't like people I don't know very well touching me.
Always awkward in high school when you'd meet a friend of a friend and they'd try to give me a goodbye hug and I'd not let them touch me.. Creates a very awkward silence.

But I am very affectionate with my mother and a couple of close friends because I can see that they need that to validate our relationship.



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06 Jul 2015, 9:56 am

I love to cuddle, I like to cuddle with anyone even a pillow. But I find cuddling with the right person can make the experience relaxing and nice. I have sensory issues with being touch so cuddling is not something I can do often.



tinyteddy
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06 Jul 2015, 11:20 am

I. LOVE. CUDDLING!! ! and i like firm hugs especially with fat people. it's so comfortable.



cinnabot
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06 Jul 2015, 7:54 pm

tinyteddy wrote:
I. LOVE. CUDDLING!! ! and i like firm hugs especially with fat people. it's so comfortable.


Actually, that does kind of remind me of my ultimate cuddle fantasy: cuddling a plush animal, while being cuddled by a giant plush animal(like my avatar) :D

It's kind of fractal :)



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06 Jul 2015, 8:08 pm

cinnabot wrote:
tinyteddy wrote:
I. LOVE. CUDDLING!! ! and i like firm hugs especially with fat people. it's so comfortable.


Actually, that does kind of remind me of my ultimate cuddle fantasy: cuddling a plush animal, while being cuddled by a giant plush animal(like my avatar) :D

It's kind of fractal :)

Cuddle inception! :D



ImAnAspie
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06 Jul 2015, 8:28 pm

I don't have anyone to cuddle.
I cuddle my kitten.


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cinnabot
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06 Jul 2015, 8:40 pm

ImAnAspie wrote:
I don't have anyone to cuddle.
I cuddle my kitten.


Yup, neither do I. I can occasionally beg cuddles out of people, but that doesn't work much. When someone does give in, I just try to remember it as intensely and clearly as I can, because I don't know when my next cuddles may come, so I have to live on my most recent memory of them, until then :)



steve30
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06 Jul 2015, 9:38 pm

ImAnAspie wrote:
I don't have anyone to cuddle.
I cuddle my kitten.


I got to cuddle a kitten one day last year. It was awesome :).



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06 Jul 2015, 9:47 pm

I love cuddling cats :heart: Humans are meh though.