Yensid wrote:
sgrannel wrote:
I'm relatively high on the social anhedonia scale as compared to some other people I know. Other people are energized by a lot of contact with other people but it makes me tired. I guess it's a difference in the way people are wired. I don't have anhedonia in other areas like eating and exercise and work.
I'm not sure if you are really describing anhedonia. I enjoy social interactions, but I avoid them because they require a lot of work from me, because I am not very successful at them, and because I have to take a lot of time to recover afterward.
Yeah, social anhedonia characterizes how much you "don't want to" socialize, and thus it's a part of your drive to socialize. However, there are other factors that characterize your 'social drive' including anxiety, past performance, expected work, etc.
It's much like ... candy. Let's make it a really expensive and rare one, like, carefully cured Belgian chocolate.
Those who really desire candy are said to have low candy anhedonia. Those who don't have high candy anhedonia.
Among those who really desire candy, but are demoralized by the amount of work required to obtain one or by the amount of cash that is required to be forked over, may have low drive to obtain the candy because of the amount of work required. But, they still have low candy anhedonia because they desire it.
With social anhedonia, a person with 'low anhedonia' *wants* to interact with others, but might not be motivated to do so because of anxiety, past results and other difficulties. If they don't have interactional difficulties, then they'll probably both have low anhedonia and high social drive!