I've been essentially married (everything but the legal recognition) for almost 14 years. We've been legally married for a little over one year. I'm very happy in my marriage, but I will admit that we are not a normal couple. 1. we're both guys (we're gay).
2. my husband is, like me, very practical and not easily swayed by emotion.
3. there is a 22 year age difference between us (he is 55, I am 33).
4. he is unusually patient and accommodating with my sensory issues and social difficulties.
5. he is a truck driver, and is away from home 4-5 days a week. I get a lot of alone time because of this, which I need.
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You don't need to hide, my friend, for I am just like you.