Autistic boy turned away from college after starting course
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James Parker, 16, who is described as having high support needs, enrolled at City College Norwich (CCN) on Monday last week for a one-year pathways course and enjoyed “the best week of his life”, his mother said.
Then on Friday his mother, Emma, received a letter from the college telling her he had been enrolled in error and asking her not to send him back to college.
Emma Parker posted the letter on Facebook on Friday saying she was heartbroken. “This has been the story through all his educational years. I’m taking this further. How dare they do this.” Her post has been shared more than 14,500 times.
It reads: “My son is autistic and was told [at the] beginning of [the] year he had to find a college for September as he couldn’t stay on at his autistic school. So we applied and went for [an] interview at the city college. He was over the moon to hear the lady say: ‘Yes, 100% James is on the course.’ So he started and enrolled Monday – had the best week of his life. He even said: ‘Mum, I could cry happy tears.’
The college said it would review its application processes but said James’s needs had been assessed earlier in the year as part of his education, health and care plan (EHCP) and it was decided he needed a higher level of support and a different learning environment from that which it could provide.
“As had been determined in March, the college had already assessed that we were unable to provide the level of right support and environment needed, but this only came to light when we cross-referenced enrolment and additional needs funding records.”
The college apologised, adding: “We are clear that this very unfortunate and isolated incident should not have happened. We are now reviewing our application processes to make sure that something like this cannot happen again. We are also working with Norfolk county council to help find the right provision for James.”
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DSM 5: Autism Spectrum Disorder, DSM IV: Aspergers Moderate Severity.
“My autism is not a superpower. It also isn’t some kind of god-forsaken, endless fountain of suffering inflicted on my family. It’s just part of who I am as a person”. - Sara Luterman
Not surprised at all. Having worked for FE Colleges, attended them and assisted people with disabilities (not only ASD) my experience is that they are a law unto themselves and only interested in bums on seats and money in the bank. They will blame the victim automatically and if not play the "health and safety" card.
I was interviewed for a job with an FE College where I ended up telling the HR representative what Equal Opportunities actually means. She had stated it was "treating everyone the same and how you would like to be treated yourself" - I turned down the post when offered.
My own son (ASD and L Disability) turned up for a discussion about a course and was immediately told he had to undertake a Literacy and Numeracy assessment online without any prior warning. Luckily his Mother was with him and asked what "reasonable adjustments" they would be making for him. They did not know what the phrase meant.
We learned to treble check everything we were told by any service provider as they will lie their back teeth off not to look bad.
My thoughts are with the lad.
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