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Can you drive?
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23 Oct 2017, 3:02 am

I am considering learning to drive but it just seems overwhelming to me how many of you can drive?



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23 Oct 2017, 3:07 am

You get used to it. It was overwhelming at first like anything new, but after a while, I find you get into an autopilot.
I can drive trucks.
Within the next fortnight, I am also learning to ride a motorbike and drive a stick shift. :mrgreen:
You'll be ok!


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23 Oct 2017, 7:04 am

Yes.

I drive people crazy all the time.

Oh, you mean "drive"..... nope, still can't do that.



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23 Oct 2017, 7:22 am

Driving on country roads in the middle of the night/early morning before the sun comes up is my favorite thing in life, honestly.

Rush hour, not so much.

Best of luck with learning. I believe the British have a great deal of discipline and an affinity for rules so hopefully those cultural attributes translate to their driving habits!



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23 Oct 2017, 7:24 am

It took me until 35 to be able to learn but now I can drive I love it. There are challenges but once you get into doing it regularly, it starts to sink in more and become more natural. It was difficult learning though and I got through quite a few instructors.


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23 Oct 2017, 7:27 am

I drive but it took me a long time to actually start doing it. I refused to own a car and instead just walked everywhere until last year when I got a job too far away. For me, it was all about necessity and I honestly would prefer to not have to drive at all as I find it fairly stressful. I agree with what everyone else says about it getting easier with time but I personally still refuse to drive on the interstate or to places I'm not familiar with because I get so overwhelmed.



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23 Oct 2017, 8:11 am

akn90 wrote:
Best of luck with learning. I believe the British have a great deal of discipline and an affinity for rules so hopefully those cultural attributes translate to their driving habits!


Nope.



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23 Oct 2017, 2:39 pm

Yes I drive. It may seem overwhelming at first but eventually it becomes second nature.

Can't say I enjoy driving tbh though, prefer when it's quiet with fewer w*****s on the road.


akn90 wrote:
I believe the British have a great deal of discipline and an affinity for rules so hopefully those cultural attributes translate to their driving habits!


Can't.tell.if.serious :?


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23 Oct 2017, 2:58 pm

No, because I might have a medical emergency while behind the wheel.


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23 Oct 2017, 4:04 pm

thewheel wrote:
Can't.tell.if.serious :?
Ha, I've heard queuing described as a British national pastime, and my family has told me that "British discipline" is the saving grace of the former British colony that they originally came from, so I was optimistically hoping these cultural characteristics translated to driving, but apparently that isn't the case!



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23 Oct 2017, 4:16 pm

It is overwhelming at first, but over time a lot of it gets to be automatic. If you want to hold down a job anywhere but one of the biggest cities, learning to drive is pretty much a necessity for midwesterners. I love driving for the most part, but it's a lot less fun toward the east coast or in southern California than it is most places I go.



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23 Oct 2017, 4:29 pm

Yes, and I learned to drive stick because I wanted to be sure that I could get someone to the hospital in an emergency if that was the only transportation available.

So help me, I was on a date about 6 months after I got my license. He came down with acute appendicitis in the middle of the restaurant, and I drove him to the hospital in his car. With a stick shift. ( 8O :pale: 8O After that, I quit wondering if it really made sense to plan for the worst case scenario.)

He made a full recovery and we dated for a while after.

I :heart: :heart: :heart: LOVE :heart: :heart: :heart: to drive.


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23 Oct 2017, 5:50 pm

I can and have for a long time. That said, if I had a driver I would not complain at all...



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23 Oct 2017, 7:58 pm

Interesting thing I've noticed. If I try to speak a language that's not English while driving, I drive very badly. So I refuse to speak any language but English while driving.

I guess it comes from an inability to multitask.


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23 Oct 2017, 8:44 pm

Yes, I can drive. I try to avoid highway driving whenever possible, but around town at lower speeds I'm pretty comfortable. Fortunately no wrecks in the nearly 20 years I've been on the road. Hopefully I didn't just set myself up for an ironic tragedy... :)

Anyway, just start slow, get used to where everything is and what it does and gradually build your skill.



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24 Oct 2017, 12:02 am

I never learned to drive. I still have the idea that something terrible would happen with me at the wheel.