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Are you currently unemployed or are you employed and did you ever had a part time, or full time job?
I am unemployed and never had a part or full time job. 13%  13%  [ 7 ]
I am unemployed and never had a full time job. 5%  5%  [ 3 ]
I am currently unemployed but i had a part time job in the past. 9%  9%  [ 5 ]
I am currently unemployed but had a full time job in the past. 13%  13%  [ 7 ]
I am currently unemployed but had a part time and full time jobin the past. 5%  5%  [ 3 ]
I am currently part time employed. 20%  20%  [ 11 ]
I am currently full time employed. 30%  30%  [ 17 ]
I am currently part time employed, but was never unemployed. 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
I am currently full time employed and was never unemployed. 5%  5%  [ 3 ]
Total votes : 56

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23 Nov 2018, 2:39 pm

Fos11 wrote:
And how the f**k do you get a job without a decent education, and anxiety?
Why the f*** do you keep complaining about it? Either accept your situation, shut up, and let your parents do what they want with you, or DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!!

You have been told many times and by many people what to do, now it’s up to you.

None of us here can do anything to help you, even if you actually wanted any help from us at all.



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23 Nov 2018, 4:03 pm

I know thats why im so angry i feel so helpless and lost.



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23 Nov 2018, 4:12 pm

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I know thats why im so angry i feel so helpless and lost.
You’e been offered help. You’ve been given guidance. You’e also refused to do anything about it.

Answer these questions:

Do you have a handicap or disability that has actually been professionally confirmed? If so, what was the actual professional diagnosis?

Have your parents offered to pay your first month’s rent, plus a security deposit?

Have you ever actually tried to further your education?



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23 Nov 2018, 4:17 pm

Youre right i do not want change, because change is hard.



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23 Nov 2018, 4:27 pm

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Youre right i do not want change, because change is hard.
You are evading the questions. Answer them.



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23 Nov 2018, 4:30 pm

Im not simply autistic, i am more insane, maybe even schizophrenic. Which makes everything harder.



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23 Nov 2018, 4:33 pm

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Im not simply autistic, i am more insane, maybe even schizophrenic. Which makes everything harder.
You’re still evading the questions.

Do you have an actual, official, professional diagnoses?

Have your parents offered to pay your first month’s rent, plus a security deposit?

Have you ever actually tried to further your education?



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23 Nov 2018, 4:35 pm

Yes i do have a diagnosis no i never improved my education.



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23 Nov 2018, 4:36 pm

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Yes i do have a diagnosis no i never improved my education.
What, exactly was the diagnosis?

And have your parents offered to pay your first month’s rent, plus a security deposit?



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23 Nov 2018, 4:38 pm

Do you have any interests that really make you happy when you pursue them?



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23 Nov 2018, 4:41 pm

No why would i, my life sucks.



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23 Nov 2018, 4:43 pm

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No why would i, my life sucks.
And you want everybody to know it.

What exactly was your diagnosis?



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23 Nov 2018, 4:44 pm

The truth is life sucks for most people, and even more for disabled people. Most people are only happy because of optimism bias. A survival mechanism of the human species to not freak out at the horrifying reality, especially in ancient times.



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23 Nov 2018, 4:48 pm

You're talking bullcrap. What "optimism bias?"

If you can come up with "optimism bias," you can probably get a job somewhere.



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23 Nov 2018, 4:50 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
You're talking bullcrap. What "optimism bias?"

If you can come up with "optimism bias," you can probably get a job somewhere.


-People tend to overestimate the probability of positive events and underestimate the probability of negative events, a phenomenon known as optimism bias- https://www.behavioraleconomics.com/res ... mism-bias/

He didn't make it up, however he is misusing it.


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23 Nov 2018, 4:54 pm

I wish I knew the guy. Very few people at age 19 are hopeless. And many 19 year olds fall into a trap of depression.

What are you interested in, Fos? Are you interested in psychology, in autism?