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Your post, which seems to imply that a poster is fair game if he doesn't post in The Haven.

Just because a thread is not in The Haven doesn't give you a license to torment the OP.

Maybe it's me , if someone told me to f**k off as my advice was not wanted , I would.

( except of course in this case where I am trying to moderate without moderating )

... a.k.a., "Attention" -- not that there is anything wrong with that.A game that I stopped playing long, long ago.It is not my intent to distress the OP. If he wants to say he's distressed, that's his choice, too.

Me too.
And I don't have any Canadian guys from years ago on my record, so I can't look into myself to find the answers.

OR, better yet, why don't the mods move this and all of the OP's similar threads to The Haven, where even I will honor the sanctity of the space and submit only banal and meaningless posts, if I submit any posts at all?

I can't do that , I'm a rent-a-mod , maybe another mod will if the OP requests it. If he doesn't request it , the thread will stay and we will be at loggerheads with each other ( as members )

Well, for what it's worth, I am requesting the move. I mean, if the OP is distressed by his detractors posting in his threads, it would make more sense than directing dozens of people to not post in any of his threads at all.

^ I'll make a note of it in the mod area but you should PM as well if you want a speedy response.

Done.

Me too

I've read it over three times and can't see anything scary about it. I'm not threatening anyone. I'm not insulting anyone. What on earth is scary about it?

Not that long ago - less than one year I'm sure - the gut dysbiosis fellow.

Still no answer to the original question.

Basically , I read your post as saying

If it aint in the Haven you have to put up with unsupportive posts from you.

I need to get off Fnords back for getting on Marknis back.

And I need to tell Marknis to f**k off to the Haven as you are going to pick on him relentlessly until he does.

I know. I shall start a Poll to see what others think , that's what Fnord does when he wants to know something.

The truth is that The Haven was set up specifically to provide a safe place for people to avoid unsupportive posts.Since I haven't been figuratively or literally on his back (only responding to other people's posts), then getting on my back for being on his back may not be appropriate.The suggestion was made to move his threads to The Haven, not to "f**k off" as you put it. There is no threat to "pick on him relentlessly", either. As has been pointed out, he seems to feel he is being picked on whenever someone suggests that he actually do something to improve his situation.

Now, this could be a wrong assumption, but I don't see any mods "getting on his back" for lying about threats against his life, for lying about people talking behind his back, and for generally lying about what his "detractors" have said about him.

Although I could be wrong (which I sometimes am), but it seems that he is getting more slack for what he says anywhere on this website than most people get for what they post in PP&R. This is one of the reasons why I think he would be better off to have his threads moved to The Haven, where just such an environment is encouraged.

Finally, I apologize if this post offends you, but I felt the need to remain involved in a conversation that includes me.

Sensible idea! Need any assistance?