My naked bro.

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I don't care for the OP, I'm just enjoying our chat

One of my close (male) friends once left the shower completely naked because he forgot I was at his place He was waaaay more embarassed than I was
Underwear only is okay among the family and the closest friends.
I also let my daughters see me bathing naked. I learned a lot of girls get too self-concious because the only female bodies they see are in porn and they don't look like the heavily siliconed and photoshopped models. I never felt like this - I was used to the sight of my mother bathing and this modelled my idea of an adult female. I think it's healthy.

I'm sorry for the late replyl. I was at wark
Than i had to pick up the king from his Aut. Babysitters house. Than he had a meltdown in Walmart. So we had to leave Walmart early.

And for the people saying that im a troll. I'm not. 1. you don't know anything about me or my family.

2. In my first post about the list. I specifically said WE MAKE HIM BEHAVE IN PUBLIC. But at home its if he's not hurting anyone or himself we let him do it. And i know it may look like we let him run whild we don't there is structsr. And he is learning though play. For example last night when he was just making a HUGE mess in the bathroom i sprayed whipped cream on the wall and i said "hay buddy how big can you say numbers"? And he counted to 10. That's only one example. Another is being naked he sometimest goes to the toilet by himself know. (Of course one of us me or my mom are always there).

But yeah. You have to remember he has SEV. Autism. And had 6 brain surgeries. So are parenting/careing stiye for him is SO SO SO much different from that of a NT. or of a (and please don'take this in a mean way "regular" autistic.)

Sorry for my spelling i have dislexcea.

Thank you for responding.

I know you're not a troll.

Many times, people put Original Posts down, some of which might be for "shock value." Then never respond again.

You did. So you're okay.

It sounds like your brother can speak---which is pretty good.

Thank you so much.

Special needs families adapt to their unique situations. They find what works and go with it. From an outsiders point of view it may look like chaos, but the childrens needs are met and the caretakers sanity remains intact. In our house sensory needs are satisfied. We have trampolines, crash mats, cubbies, balance beams, chewies, and alot of soft materials to cuddle with. Nothing but shorts (my current state) is common. It is a little crowded, but there is far less destruction than before we got all this stuff.

He self harms that y all the brain surgeries. And read it again.

as a child i had to be restrained from banging my head against the wall. no wonder i'm warped now.

And yes I know it's there im sorry. But we do make him behave in public.

It's much less likely you are a troll now that you have actually responded, but what were the brain surgeries for?
And I would take what Ezra says seriously.