Spending on hobbies/special interests ?
My brother does that. He was an electrician. He has recently had his radioham licence. He wants me to get one but I rarely go on the CB as I am a bit nurvous to speak to people. Also I doubt I would pass the exams lately due to having been in a "Fragile" state, but I am improving now as I can do my modelling again.
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If you asked me to learn something a few weeks ago, I would not be able to take any new information in because my brain was in fragile mode. I had been slipping in and out of this mode on and off since the summer before last when I hit the last burnout. My ability to concentrate on learning was gone.
Now I am not in the fragile stage as I write, I am improving. The fragile stage effected more then my ability to learn and study. It effected my concentration and my physical abilities as well.
I do not want to rush this recovery as I know through past experience that rushing leads to another major burnout, so I am taking it easy to let myself fully heal before I take on new things. In other words, I need to take it easy.
Several months ago I could not play computer games when asked. Now I can.
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I bought genealogical DNA tests for my Dad and for my mother's sister (since my mother was deceased). I could've gotten just about the same info, except Dad's mtDNA, by testing myself--but I figured this way (a) it would be clear which side of my family the data applied to, (b) the data would be one generation closer to Adam & Eve, and (c) I could amuse Dad. The only subsequent expenses were optional (and not-really-needed) upgrades on Dad's Y-DNA test. So, pretty much, I paid, I got results I could use, and my only obligatory cost was the original payment.
You have on-going, non-trivial expenses?
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When diagnosed I bought champagne!
I finally knew why people were strange.
I don’t spend much but then again my parents don’t exactly give me money to spend. In the past when I have had money from birthdays and stuff I usually save it up for a while then just end up spending it on things.
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I'm a few $k in the hole right now from putting together my recording rig, but this time around it should sound exactly like what I've had in mind for ages instead of just sounding tolerable. The problem with my POD is that all the amps it could model were tube amps and I just wanted an Ampeg VH-140C and a Marshall Valvestate 8100.
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That is what money is for.
I mean like months-years
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When I was earning a lot, I used to spend quite a bit on CDs, DVDs, books, model railway stuff, and tools. Plus a few one-off things, like a bass guitar and an R/C car kit. But I never really had much time to enjoy them. Consequently I have a huge stockpile of unused things I "comfort bought" and I could quite happily stay at home for the next decade without running out of things to do.
The problem now is my ADHD (if that's what it is) seems to be getting worse and I can't concentrate on much for long anyway. I've been off work for almost 6 months now and I've started about 5 books but only finished one. I can't imagine I'll have the patience for learning the bass either! Seem to spend most of my time distracted online, or filling out forms :-s
My biggest weakness by far is cars, I've owned over 20 and only had a driving licence for 22 years. Most of them weren't particularly flashy, indeed some were absolute sheds, but I like the variety and the challenge of getting to know a new vehicle. I have 3 cars at the moment, they're all defective in some way or another, and I'm skint. Ah well.
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What kinda bass do you have?
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It's an SDGR bass, identical to this: Pinterest shot I've just borrowed
I am a complete noob though. Bought it off a friend who was buying a house, partly cos I wanted to try learning, but also partly to help them out without it seeming obvious...
I'm not nearly as impulsive as I used to be. I tend to refrain from spending on my hobbies. I spend most of my money on necessities and sometimes I'll buy something for myself. I make decent money but I hesitate to spend money on myself most of the time. I also don't have space for many things.
Most of the hobbies I've engaged in recently are running, books, and video games. I've only purchased one new game lately and I've been content with playing that, or old games. I don't have much free time anyway though. I love to go hunting for antiques but I haven't done any of that this year due to the pandemic.
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I don't have a horse in your war games
I don't even really like horses
I like wild orchids and neighbors with wide orbits
It can be. I still try to work in moderation and limits.
I really love collecting vinyl music records and albums/LP's. Especially from the 70s and 80s, and pop, disco, funk, soul, hip-hop, jazz, R&B, soft rock, new wave, new age, dance and electronic, and alternative/grunge music. I just look at the covers, and just to have to collect another one. (I didn't even know Jim Nabors who played Gomer Pyle, had albums, he does, and I picked one of his albums on vinyl up. lol.)
I just try to limit myself, but I do lose myself, and it's a hobby I have that I like. I just do it moderation, and set limits.
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For a pure hobby, I work mostly with scrap. For house repairs and improvements, I'll buy new material when that's the only way forward. For a project involving career development, more than once I have split my last $20 between groceries and hardware. Some supplies, such as glue or sandpaper, are bought on sale if possible, but seem as essential as bread.
I stick to my budget very well. Everyone I know trust me with money (and their lives). I do go through phases with collectibles. I made sure I only buy the ones I know will resell easily, so they don't lose their value. This has worked very well for many years and I actually made money on my hobbies, until one day our house got broken in and my stuff stolen. My insurance didn't cover a lot so that was quite a blow. Now I try to play with some cheaper stuff.
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