magz wrote:
Rainbow_Belle wrote:
I can not get a job because of Aspergers.
My boss has Asperger's.
My original diagnosis was Asperger's. It was later revised to "Pervasive Developmental Disorder Not Otherwise Specified" ... with a "side-order" of PTSD.magz wrote:
Rainbow_Belle wrote:
I can not drive a car because of Aspergers.
A lot of WP members drive.
I drive, although I hate driving in downtown Los Angeles and avoid it when I can.magz wrote:
Rainbow_Belle wrote:
I can not make friends because of Aspergers.
ASD-friendly friendships is a big topic, Mona often mentions autistic-friendly social skills.
I don't have many friends, but those I do have are people I can trust and rely on if I have to.magz wrote:
Rainbow_Belle wrote:
Aspergers may lead to a life of failure, defeatism, learned helplessness and victim mentality.
It may or may not. Other conditions may lead to them, too.
The operative word is "May".magz wrote:
Rainbow_Belle wrote:
I can not do ........ because of Aspergers.
You may not be able to get a job, drive a car or make friends, you may see yourself as a failure and linger in defeatism and learned helplessness but a belief of Asperger's as a sole source of it all is simply false.
Agreed. To blame it all on Asperger's (except maybe the most severe kind) is a mistake. Some of us had no idea what was "wrong" with us, and we set out to make the best of things by doing whatever we could do instead of worrying about what we couldn't do. Then again, had I known that I was "hopelessly autistic" as a child -- like so many others on this website -- I would right now still be homeless and living on the streets ... if not dead.
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