Who are your Heroes?
auntblabby
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Auntblabby, this is one of my favorite interviews ever. His honesty, his self-knowledge.
The ugly 70s style of the tryhard interviewer.
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I truly don't mean any offence, but given the way you've been talking about her here, I find this rather astonishing, borderline disturbing.
She must be a hell of a woman to raise such strong conflicting feelings in you!
Or maybe you're just a very complicated man
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I truly don't mean any offence, but given the way you've been talking about her here, I find this rather astonishing, borderline disturbing.
She must be a hell of a woman to raise such strong conflicting feelings in you!
Or maybe you're just a very complicated man
the smiley with the tongue sticking out is used when the person is joking i believe.
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I truly don't mean any offence, but given the way you've been talking about her here, I find this rather astonishing, borderline disturbing.
She must be a hell of a woman to raise such strong conflicting feelings in you!
Or maybe you're just a very complicated man
That she's my hero? I can't think of anybody else
I truly don't mean any offence, but given the way you've been talking about her here, I find this rather astonishing, borderline disturbing.
She must be a hell of a woman to raise such strong conflicting feelings in you!
Or maybe you're just a very complicated man
the smiley with the tongue sticking out is used when the person is joking i believe.
Correct - I was trying to be tongue in cheek but there isn't an emoji for that - Husbands always joke about their partners but at the end of the day we love them and I think she is my hero
personally known heroes are easier than the other ones.
my 'phuppa jaan' (uncle)..
all my life (who everyone adores. even my dad told me that when he was little and he married my dad's sister... my dad used to think of him as Joe Gargery--
except my uncle obviously had opportunities for an education, which Joe Gargery hadn't had.
also his wife isn't like Joe Gargery's wife at ALL ... the closest comparison for her is Dora or David Copperfield's mom)
2 principals at the best school i ever went to (mr and mrs ali) which, if I have any good aspect in my way of thinking, it's from them.
they were the best teachers possible and that was the best school possible despite being small.
told my mom this recently.
she decided to pass my remarks on to mrs ali immediately--
who responded to her in a message saying,
'this is the first time we have ever had anyone say something like this about us.'
which i found incredibly disheartening and sad considering they are truly the best ever, and i've been to loads of schools, so i have plenty of great teachers and excellent human beings to compare against. how ungrateful people can be towards such gems of human beings.
elder's old best nurse Irene. other current best nurse M.
funny child's old babysitter Tanya
a man we knew, who sold mangoes, and so smart and so spirited, amazing and excellent of a person, my dad wanted to pay for his education.
Akhtar bhai, who was a servant that my grandmother (dad's mom) taught and raised basically and is amazing.
and i admired him (personality, intelligence, kindness, cheerfulness, decency, humbleness, general amazingness) since i was very little -- and wanted to be like him.
he also helped when she was dying.
he also came and dropped off vegetables and other things so i got to meet him again last i was there...
my cousins who grew up in and lived in that house--- told me i was absolutely correct about him which proves that children are very perceptive.
the man who took care of my grandfather (mom's dad) for decades when he was disabled.
i think that's all.
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Aspie alert: I mean what I say and I say what I mean and I know I might misinterpret the situation when other "vent"
No sweat! BTW off topic but Bender is now officially my daughter's favourite character on TV - she can't get enough of futurama
my 'phuppa jaan' (uncle)..
all my life (who everyone adores. even my dad told me that when he was little and he married my dad's sister... my dad used to think of him as Joe Gargery--
except my uncle obviously had opportunities for an education, which Joe Gargery hadn't had.
also his wife isn't like Joe Gargery's wife at ALL ... the closest comparison for her is Dora or David Copperfield's mom)
2 principals at the best school i ever went to (mr and mrs ali) which, if I have any good aspect in my way of thinking, it's from them.
they were the best teachers possible and that was the best school possible despite being small.
told my mom this recently.
she decided to pass my remarks on to mrs ali immediately--
who responded to her in a message saying,
'this is the first time we have ever had anyone say something like this about us.'
which i found incredibly disheartening and sad considering they are truly the best ever, and i've been to loads of schools, so i have plenty of great teachers and excellent human beings to compare against. how ungrateful people can be towards such gems of human beings.
elder's old best nurse Irene. other current best nurse M.
funny child's old babysitter Tanya
a man we knew, who sold mangoes, and so smart and so spirited, amazing and excellent of a person, my dad wanted to pay for his education.
Akhtar bhai, who was a servant that my grandmother (dad's mom) taught and raised basically and is amazing.
and i admired him (personality, intelligence, kindness, cheerfulness, decency, humbleness, general amazingness) since i was very little -- and wanted to be like him.
he also helped when she was dying.
he also came and dropped off vegetables and other things so i got to meet him again last i was there...
my cousins who grew up in and lived in that house--- told me i was absolutely correct about him which proves that children are very perceptive.
the man who took care of my grandfather (mom's dad) for decades when he was disabled.
i think that's all.
Exactly !
my cousin Y used to be my role model/hero since we were 2 and 3.
I realized a few years ago...
she is just as flawed as anyone else.
she comes off as an intelligent, kind, ethereal, perfect, serene being.
like the aura they try to convey of the elf Arwen (<<liv tyler acting as) in that movie.
even adults looked up to her, like my dad kept telling me to be like her. and elder people would defer to her opinion on any subject.
even SHE was in awe of her and respected her. and listened to her.
even though she respected and listened to nobody else ever in her entire life and could hoodwink anyone and do anything without limits.
i admired her so much that, when XH began calling and visiting,
i kept saying to go marry her instead as i felt he was too good for me.
even in tears.
i could spend ages praising her to him.
what a nutjob i must've come off as.
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I don't know If i'd say i have any heroes. None come to mind, not that i'd be any good at expressing why either way. There are people who i admire. But I don't know if I'd say any of them really are a hero to me.
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auntblabby
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heroes are not just those who brave imminent physical danger [like in war combat] in the face of insuperable odds, but also those "different-thinking" types who invent stuff we find indispensable day-to-day. in light of what we're all doing here on WP, it would have to be the person who made this site, and another person [Tim Berners-Lee] who conceived of the web platform that made WP possible in the first place. Barack Obama is another hero of mine because he expended tremendous political capital to finally cease "kicking this can down the road" and find a political solution to our national shame of the uninsured. heroes not only save the day but they also, just as importantly, give us reason to hope for better. LBJ is a hero to me because it took guts to "lose the south" like he did in order to extend civil rights to POC. MLK is a hero for forcing the issue, along with countless other folks who carried out the important work. Susan B. Anthony, Alice Paul, Elizabeth Cady Stanton, Lucy Stone and Ida B. Wells likewise pushed the Overton Window way to the left in their fight for women's suffrage. Phyllis Lyon and Franklin Kameny, along with the brave and angry patrons of the Stonewall Inn, likewise for the LGBT movement. all bona-fide HEROES.