Did you have any heroes who helped you grow up?

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Did you have any heroes who helped you grow up?
Yes, mostly musical heroes 9%  9%  [ 5 ]
Yes, mostly TV and movie heroes 12%  12%  [ 7 ]
Yes, mostly literary heroes 12%  12%  [ 7 ]
Yes, mostly family members 7%  7%  [ 4 ]
Yes, mostly teachers 7%  7%  [ 4 ]
Yes, mostly others 14%  14%  [ 8 ]
No 40%  40%  [ 23 ]
Total votes : 58

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14 Dec 2020, 11:35 am

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Daktari (Swahili for "doctor") is an American family drama series that aired on CBS between 1966 and 1969.  The series is an Ivan Tors Films Production in association with MGM Television starring Marshall Thompson as Dr. Marsh Tracy, a veterinarian at the fictional Wameru Study Center for Animal Behavior in East Africa.
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14 Dec 2020, 11:55 am

H.E.R.O. -- Honesty, Empathy, Respect, Open-Mindedness.

There was no such person available to me while I was growing up.


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14 Dec 2020, 11:20 pm

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I'd say my favorite authors. Not necessarily as who they were but because of what they could create. I couldn't picture things in my head when someone described something for years. I couldn't just image something new on my own. I was fascinated by the stories they could weave and world building accomplished by them. It was like a puzzle I needed to solve to understand and in time fell in love with most genres of literature.

When I was overwhelmed I would retreat into my books and go on fantastical adventures that made all the noise and hurt just disappear. Even during class, when it would become to much, I'd pick up my book ( I always had one in my bag wherever I went). I got away with this in school because I made straight A's and always turned my assignments in on time. So the teachers just let me be and mostly the other students did too.

So to name a few of my literary heroes: Jules Verne, Wilkie Collins, Harlan Ellison, Conan Doyle, Oda Eiichiro, Henry James (yes, I love Henry James and I don't care who makes fun of me for it 8O ), Ranpo Edogawa, Jane Austen, Alexandre Dumas, Franz Kafka...


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My favorite author of all times, according to ME: Jane Austen... :heart: :heart: :heart:



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15 Dec 2020, 1:56 pm

Spunge42 wrote:
I'd say my favorite authors. Not necessarily as who they were but because of what they could create. I couldn't picture things in my head when someone described something for years. I couldn't just image something new on my own. I was fascinated by the stories they could weave and world building accomplished by them. It was like a puzzle I needed to solve to understand and in time fell in love with most genres of literature.

When I was overwhelmed I would retreat into my books and go on fantastical adventures that made all the noise and hurt just disappear. Even during class, when it would become to much, I'd pick up my book ( I always had one in my bag wherever I went). I got away with this in school because I made straight A's and always turned my assignments in on time. So the teachers just let me be and mostly the other students did too.

So to name a few of my literary heroes: Jules Verne, Wilkie Collins, Harlan Ellison, Conan Doyle, Oda Eiichiro, Henry James (yes, I love Henry James and I don't care who makes fun of me for it 8O ), Ranpo Edogawa, Jane Austen, Alexandre Dumas, Franz Kafka...

I regret giving up reading at 2yrs old.
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15 Dec 2020, 2:15 pm

I had negative heroes, bully peers, narcissistic dad, I went on to make lots of errors as a result.



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15 Dec 2020, 5:24 pm

I am sure that i did have more than one hero growing up...All of them, irrelevant now...At present time, my beloved (as yet undiagnosed Aspie) husband is MY HERO :heart: :heart: :heart: ...For the simple reason that he functions in this world despite and in spite of the many limitations caused by his autistic traits...:cry: :cry: :cry: HE IS MY HERO, indeed!! ! :heart: :heart: :heart:



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15 Dec 2020, 7:04 pm

Everything helps, hurts, both, neither or not enough information to answer the question

Not everything that helps is a hero



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26 Dec 2020, 7:10 pm

diagnosedafter50 wrote:
I had negative heroes, bully peers, narcissistic dad, I went on to make lots of errors as a result.

I wish I could delete this post, its too negative, I could have chosen to have heroes in books.



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30 Dec 2020, 11:09 am

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So, one of my childhood heros was Grandmaster Ed Parker, who was like a God among his people.
And next to him, there was my chief instructor, whom i looked up to in many ways.

I think training in Karate did help me a great deal while growing up, as not only did i learn fighting skills that i could use to defend myself from the many bullies at school and where i used to live, but the training was great for someone with ASD, as it gave me repetition, routine, and an intricate system of movements, language etc. to memorise.

Training in Karate also gave me social contact, somewhere to hang out and be around people but without the pressure of having to talk that much.

Great for those who have ASD and who do not have a problem with co-ordination.

I recommend martial arts in this manner, can give a person a lot of purpose.
Oh, yes. I've heard of Ed Parker and American Kenpo. I trained in judo for a few years, but left after the instructors started emphasizing competitive judo over simply training. I agree that martial arts are good for autistics.

There are two senior Karate instructors in the UK, a married couple, who are both autistic:
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30 Dec 2020, 12:49 pm

Why delete your post?

You’re talking Truth!



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11 Feb 2021, 11:39 am

Clueless2017 wrote:
I am sure that i did have more than one hero growing up...All of them, irrelevant now...At present time, my beloved (as yet undiagnosed Aspie) husband is MY HERO :heart: :heart: :heart: ...For the simple reason that he functions in this world despite and in spite of the many limitations caused by his autistic traits...:cry: :cry: :cry: HE IS MY HERO, indeed!! ! :heart: :heart: :heart:
Oh, that's wonderful :)
Good to hear that :)


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21 Feb 2021, 2:46 pm

Fnord wrote:
H.E.R.O. -- Honesty, Empathy, Respect, Open-Mindedness.
That's a nice acronym. Thanks :-)


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24 Feb 2021, 2:38 pm

I had role models of what I didn't want to be like. I've since learned to appreciate the positive things I've learned from some of them without realizing it at the time, and they have since learned to appreciate my obstinacy as strength of character. I would still never say they were heroes to me though. No one below me, no one above.


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24 Feb 2021, 3:59 pm

A lot of my heroes are in literature and video games, and sometimes films or TV shows. In real life I have family members and school staff (mostly secondary school) and other real-life figures who have taught me a lot and been inspirations for me.


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07 Mar 2021, 5:21 am

Since many of us admired Martin Luther King Jr., would you say that his famous speech, "I have a Dream", could be applied to the Autistic community's social struggle for dignity and equality?


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10 Jul 2021, 3:54 pm

traven wrote:
growing up is teen years only???
(too literal translation going on :mrgreen: grow up in dutch is related to childhood)

but then i don't see how you relate that to the op poll ??
I suppose "growing up" can describe any period in one's life. Most people experience it during their childhood and teenage years, but I guess we all continue growing up throughout our lives. The poll can refer to any person whom you looked up to in the past or still look up to.


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